Help I Had Un Protected Sex With a Woman That Has Herpes 1 Posted: 05-29-07 16:21pm
I had unprotected sex with a woman with
Herpes 3 times for about an hour each
time. I also went down on her with my
mouth. She told me after the 3rd time
that she had herpes 1. SHe told me that
she just found out. I think that she knew
from the start, but anyway I'm not seeing
her anymore but need help. I have been to
the doc 3 times and seen 3 different docs.
They told me that I have molluscum
contagiosum. (is that spreadable??) But
the next morning after the 3rd time I went
to the doc before she ever told me cause I
had a red rash on my balls and base of my
scrotum. There were a lot of little white
heads. I showed the doc this and he said
for sure it was not herpes. I didn't
believe him so I went to another doc a
week later and the rash and white heads
were gone and this doc tested me for
everything. I have yet to hear back on
the herpes test cause it was blood, but
all the others they could check by piss
testing and I was negative. Now the rash
has come back again and its not to itchy
but I can tell that something is not the
norm down there. I have had sex about 5
times in the last 2 days with my new woman
and I could just be sore, but the rash has
returned. Is there anything that I can do
to get rid of this on going rash problem.
It does not look good and to have a rash
and also a couple bumps from molluscum
contagiosum I feel like I have to have sex
in the dark. I also don't want to infect
her with somthing, even though 3 doctors
say that I don't have herpes 1. I should
know soon if I tested positive for herpes,
but I can't wait for this rash to go away.
Any help o either of my two issues would
be very soothing for me. I want this all
to go away so that I can shave my pubs and
enjoy sex with a woman that could be my
wife soon. I'm 26 years old and have been
very sexually active in my life and this
situation has really got me rethinking
everything I have ever done and all the un
protected sex I have ever had. HELP
PLEASE!
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Tylanas
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Posted: 05-29-07 17:54pm
If you tested too soon after having sex,
even if you did have herpes it wouldn't
show up because it hadn't had enough time
to reprduce. I hope you're using a condom
for now, and I think you should let your
potential wife know what you're going
through. My fiancee once Imed me on aim
and said he was getting tested and I
should too. Turns out he was negative so I
didn't have to test . He was the link
between a convoluted line of partners and
one of them had herpes. He's not
promiscuous, but he was dating a girl, and
that girl had dated a guy, and that guy
had dated another girl, and this last girl
found out she had it, so everybody
involved had to be tested.
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jcp644
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Joined: 29 May 2007 Posts: 10 Location: Arizona
Posted: 05-29-07 18:37pm
We use a condom now, but she is wanting to
start with out once her birth control
kicks in. I was tested this last time
about a month and a half after the last
time I had sew with the infected woman.
How long could it take to really know for
sure? And it seems that the rash comes
out after having sex and not cleaning my
area. the juices from her flowing to my
lower scrotum and pubic area. My doctor
also said that herpes would be in one
romote area. not all over... I just want
to believe my 3 different doctors you
know? But, it just doesn't seem right!
Is there any creams or something that I
can use for the mulloscum? And this
recent rash last 1 day!! Adter I made
this first post I went and checked and the
rash was gone. And sometimes my balls are
sticky and have a little whiteness to them
and my doc said that it was yeast?
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Tylanas
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Posted: 05-29-07 19:56pm
I think there's a lot you need to talk to
your doctor about; you have several
conditions and problems and they're going
to take more than just internet advice to
deal with.
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jcp644
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 29 May 2007 Posts: 10 Location: Arizona
Posted: 05-30-07 11:25am
The problem is that I have been to the
doctor 3 times in the last 2 months. And
everytime they give me an answer that I'm
happy to hear, but its like something is
wrong down there and it can't just be
normal. I'm trying to take care of this.
I have been tested for everything twice, I
have my doctors check me out when
something pops up down there, and now I
have come to the internet to see if
someone else can help. Maybe there are
specialist that my insurance can cover for
me? Maybe my 3 doctors are getting this
wrong? I'm just depressed, feel sick,
embarassed, and need help? I guess I will
go back to the doctor again and see if
there is something else they can do for
me...
