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PRETTYGRL2007

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Iam 14 Pregnant & Scared I Need Sum1 to Talk To.asap Posted: 05-29-07 16:39pm


HI MY NAME IS KACI AND I FOUND OUT IAM PREGNANT I DO NOT NO WAT TO DO AND IAM SO AFRAID TO TELL ANYONE BUT I NEED SUM1 TO TALK BECUZ I FEEL HORRIBLE ABOUT IT AND MY BF EVEN BROKE UP WIT ME I THNK. CAN SUM 1 PLZ HELP ME. [moderator translation] Hi my name is Kaci. I just found out out that I am pregnant and I do not know what to do now. I am so afraid to tell anyone but I need someone to talk to because I feel horrible about this. I think my boyfriend has broken up with me. Can someone please help me?[/moderator translation] Kaci please do not type in all caps and please full real words not text speak. Last edited by PRETTYGRL2007 on 05-31-07 16:15pm; edited 2 times in total

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Posted: 05-29-07 19:05pm


it's pregnant. that's too bad that your boyfriend broke up with you, either a. he'll come back to you because he's just scared right now, or b. he won't and you should be glad because you don't need someone like that in your life if that's how he's going to be. i understand that you're scared, but the sooner you get it out, the better. you could write your parents a letter or an email and tell them what's going, or you could tell them in person, whichever you decide good luck. getting pregnant does sound scary, but it is not the end of the world. there are a lot of young girls on here who have gotten pregnant at the age of 13 and 14 and 15 and they're making it just fine, i'm sure in a few weeks/months after you tell your parents you'll feel a lot better. i added you to aim, i'll im you if i see you on sometime. good luck!

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Posted: 05-29-07 20:14pm


well, be strong and be honest to your family. be responsible of your situation and health now, as you have choices to make from this point on. and welcome to ehealth, there many kind ppl here to give help and support to you. good luck...

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Posted: 05-30-07 08:23am


Hey there I am sure everything will eventually get better. if your boyfriend left you than he was no great catch. It's happened to me though and I am doing just fine. I have just graduated and I am on my second pregnancy. I am only 17. I also miscarried on my first one. It's scary when you tell your parents but who can really hate a baby ya know? even if they get mad they'll still love you and your baby it's their grandchild. If you ever need to talk to someone my email is [removed]. I have messenger if you do look me up sometime. toodles lissie [mod note: please do not post personal info such as email addresses]

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Posted: 05-31-07 07:21am


I'll be 16 next month and i'm 36 weeks with a little girl and belieive me sweetie it can be done. Yes your parents willl be disapointed, you can't really expect them not to be but the easiest thing to do is just tell them the longer you wait the harder it will be

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Posted: 05-31-07 11:53am


It might make you feel better if you told your parents with a counceler or family or even a family friend whom you trust. p.m. me if you need anything hun ok we have all pretty much been in the same boat and it is not easy but you will get thru this and we are here to support you in this.

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Posted: 05-31-07 21:43pm


tell your parents.

PRETTYGRL2007

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Posted: 06-01-07 00:24am

ANGELOS MAMA wrote:

tell your parents.

IAM VERY SCARED TO TELL MY MOM I DON'T EVEN WNT TO TELL HER. MY MOTHER IS NEVER GOING TO BE ABLE TO TRUST ME AGAIN AND I DNT WANT TO HURT HER BECAUSE I KNOW DATS HARD HEAR. AND I WASNT EVEN SUPPOSE TO B DATING HIM AND I DID ANYWAY. I JUST WISH NONE OF IT WOULD HAVE EVER HAPPEN.

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Posted: 06-01-07 02:04am

PRETTYGRL2007 wrote:

ANGELOS MAMA wrote:

tell your parents.

Please do not type in all caps.

now what has happened has happened - you can't change it.
so... time to grow up fast.
yes mom will be disappointed but the longer you hide it the more disappointed she will be.

This will not go away if you ignore it.

You played the adult game now you have to be the adult and do the right thing.

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Posted: 06-04-07 12:26pm


true enough, i have friends who are 14 there doing better then some older people good luck everything will work out in the end.

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I Know What Your Going Through. Posted: 06-04-07 21:41pm


I'm 15 and pregnant. I don't know anything either. I think that you should tell your parents, it's better for you to tell them now on good terms then to have them find out by either a doctor or when you start too show. If they were to find out by a doctor it's kind of a slap in the face to them because then they weren't prepared at all and they'll probably be either embarrased or just mad. Either way I can tell you they'll be mad, but it's worse for them to find out by a doctor then from you. As for your boyfriend, I'm sorry, you should try to talk to him about it after a week or two so he has time to process it in his head, he's probably right now confused because if he's 14 or 15 like you that's way to much for him because you guys are either freshman or sophmores and he was already worried about highschool and now he has this. So you should really let him think and then go and talk to him about it in a calm nice way. You should try on the phone and if that doesn't work, go over to his house.

PRETTYGRL2007

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Re: I Know What Your Going Through.
Posted: 06-16-07 02:15am

Analisa wrote:

I'm 15 and pregnant. I don't know anything either. I think that you should tell your parents, it's better for you to tell them now on good terms then to have them find out by either a doctor or when you start too show. If they were to find out by a doctor it's kind of a slap in the face to them because then they weren't prepared at all and they'll probably be either embarrased or just mad. Either way I can tell you they'll be mad, but it's worse for them to find out by a doctor then from you. As for your boyfriend, I'm sorry, you should try to talk to him about it after a week or two so he has time to process it in his head, he's probably right now confused because if he's 14 or 15 like you that's way to much for him because you guys are either freshman or sophmores and he was already worried about highschool and now he has this. So you should really let him think and then go and talk to him about it in a calm nice way. You should try on the phone and if that doesn't work, go over to his house.

Well my mom knows now she found out about it by going through my fone like a week ago and she was very upset at me and even more because my bf is older than me and I feel bad about it know because my boyfriend is still mad at me because he thinks I told my mom and know he treats me even worst and I can't even talk to my mother about him because she does not like him and wish she did because her attitude comes towrds me and I feel like I let her down.

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Posted: 06-16-07 18:53pm


well, you should just sit down with your mom and be like. "Mom, I know you're mad about all of this, but there isn't anything that we can do now. It's as hard and harder for me as it is for you. I really need your support right now and I really need for you to realize it and, not get over it, but accept it because if I don't have you, who would I have?" If that doesn't help then talk to your friends. It's not that you let her down, it's that she doesn't want to lose her baby, she probaby never in a million years expected this to happen. Of course she's gonna get upset, but I'm sure if you talk to her calmly she'll be able to not be so upset.