Joined: 13 Jan 2004 Posts: 1436 Location: Grand Blanc, Michigan
Please Give Advice* 2 Questions* Posted: 02-25-04 17:41pm
Hi everyone how are all of you? Those
that are preg. How is your pregnancy
progressing'? How are all the little
ones?? ? I am 18, and 19 weeks
pregnant tomorrow. I go on march 10th
to get my special ultrasound at this big
hospital to make sure my baby is okay.
Their all pretty sure he (most likely its
a he, as far as we know) is.. Anyhow ..
2 questions for ya all*
1) as you might already know, the father
of my baby is this guy name ryan. He is
a jerk. He pushed abortion in the
beginning.. Then started lying and
telling everyone it wasnt his.. Was
mean to me... Didnt talk to me etc..
Well now he called me and told me that he
is going to his dads house either today or
tomorrow to tell him about me being
pregnant (their divorced and he hasnt
even told him yet!) anyhow he said I could
come with him to talk to his dad. My
parents tell me not to go because he hasnt
been in it with me and thats hes just
trying to use me so his dad wont go as
crazy when im there.. Which im sure
thats all true. . . My boyfriend
doesnt want me going either really but he
wont be mad... Anyhow. . I kinda
wanna go tho because I would like to be
able to talk to his dad and see his
reaction and get the real story on how he
feels because I dont trust ryan to give it
to me. I have only met his dad once and
he doesnt remember who I am even so I wont
go approach him alone. I mean.. I
just think, it is the babys soon-to-be
grandfather. .But no one seems to think
I should go, but they dont understand, I
dont want to go to give ryan support, I
want to go to talk to his father .
.What do u think? Be honest, maybe im
just not thinking straight. Thanks!
Also, #2) how many calories do u think you
should be eating while pregnant? Ive
read 2000-2200.. How many do u girls
eat around? I try shooting for about
2,000.. Sometimes I go over tho,
sometimes under. Thanks!!!
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PregnaJordan
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Oct 2003 Posts: 2908
Posted: 02-25-04 17:53pm
I dont count calories,,,!!!! Lol, I
prolly eat like 5000 literally! Lmao
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insurancegirl
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Sep 2003 Posts: 5286
Posted: 02-25-04 18:04pm
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babyrae
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Jan 2004 Posts: 2957 Location: Manitoba, Canada
Posted: 02-25-04 18:12pm
For the calories.. I dont count.. I dont
even count my meals a day I just eat
lol!
As for the guy thing, I think u should
meet with his dad but I dont agree with
the idea of u going with ryan to see
him...... Maybe u can contact his dad and
talk to him yourself, tell him u just
wanted to know if hes interested in being
a part of the bays life.. Or go with ryan
but let him know its not to support him...
I just dont see why he should depend on u
for going when hes pulled all that caca on
u.... Hes lucky u didnt even hang up on
him or stop acknowledging him. But what u
feelis best for the baby, then do that.
Maybe it wouldnt hurt to put up with the
father of the baby for a lil while... It
all depends... This is actually a hard
situation to choose but I say if u can
fidn some time to talk to the dad without
ryan around, that would probably be better
I hope everything
works out!
Shauna
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Darling
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Sep 2003 Posts: 875
Posted: 02-25-04 18:15pm
Sorry I really don't have much advice
about the guy thing (i'm really bad at
that kind of stuff) but about the calories
as an 18 year old you should be eating
about 2000-2200 calories if you weren't
pregnant. Since you are you should add
about 300-500 a day. I hope things work
out for you and that you and your baby are
healthy! Are they going to do a 3-d
ultrasound??? Because they do those in
high risk and they are so neat!
Love
tanya
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KariM18
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Jan 2004 Posts: 1436 Location: Grand Blanc, Michigan
Posted: 02-25-04 22:46pm
Thank you so much everyone! Im still
thinking on it. One good thing is nothin
bad can happen and if I had any probs..
My boyfriend lives right next door to
ryans dads house!
And darling, yep their going to do that
too, im excited*
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rach16
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 20 Jan 2004 Posts: 78 Location: Scotland
My Incident Posted: 02-26-04 09:00am
I have only just come out of hospital as
my babies dad bet me ysterday really bad n
there is now n high risk my baby is goin
to have brain damage or b deformed in some
way. (not def and remember girls time
difference is different over here incase u
fink im liein but trust I wudnt bout this)
but to add to it I have also found out
there is a high chance my baby will be
still born now do I go through all this
and still either end up wit a child I wont
be able to cope with or having to carry my
child for 9 months only o find out it has
died during labour?
Thats what happened to me as you can see
in a post I put. So dont put yourself in
any danger where he could harm your child
as my babies dad seems to be similar to
yours. I am not tellin you what to do but
please be careful as I dont wnat you goin
through what I am.
Please be careful and take
rachel xx
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insurancegirl
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Sep 2003 Posts: 5286
Posted: 02-26-04 11:44am
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Mesmerizeu15
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Aug 2003 Posts: 2729 Location: Pittsburgh,PA
Posted: 02-26-04 11:49am
You deserve that..
As for the calories, you are taking your
vitamins right? And who cares, I didnt
count calories!!
I hope everything
works out!
