Can't Have Sex In Doggie Style - Wife Says It Hurts Her Posted: 05-30-07 04:13am
I am fond of having sex in doggie style.
But my wife is reluctant saying it hurts
her. I thought it was because of the wrong
angle and tried different angles, but
still she says it hurts.
I have seen in porn that couples do it
amazingly and enjoy it very much.
We've been married for over three years.
But we've done it doggie only three or
four times because of this. Every time we
try it fails ans ends up in normal
missionary.
could you please help us solve this issue.
How can I go doggie without hurting her ?
thanks
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Tylanas
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Posted: 05-30-07 11:07am
Well, if it hurts, and you've tried
several different angles, then this may
just be too painful a position for her.
Have you tried spooning instead? This is
still a "behind" type of position, but
gentler on the woman.
Also, porn means nothing. DOn't take your
sexual advice from porn. If you think
that's how sex should be, turn it off.
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Llewellyn
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Posted: 05-30-07 12:52pm
I agree with Eiri that you should never
say, "Well, it happens in pornos," and
expect your own sex life to be like that.
Some positions hurt different women. A
lot of the time it is because certain
positions will allow the penis to hit the
cervix, which can hurt the woman. There
is not much you can do other than be
understanding and avoid the positions that
hurt her.
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ScW_Sparky
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Posted: 05-31-07 15:29pm
I would suggest fingering first. The anus
is very sensitive and if you gradually
stretch rather than going straight to sex,
the results might turn out differently.
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Llewellyn
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Posted: 05-31-07 16:00pm
ScW_Sparky
wrote:
I would suggest fingering
first. The anus is very sensitive and if
you gradually stretch rather than going
straight to sex, the results might turn
out
differently.
You are right that fingers should often be
used before anal sex, but anal sex is not
the same as what is commonly referred to
as "doggy style." Doggy style is a form
of vaginal sex.
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fiona05
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Posted: 05-31-07 18:46pm
have you tried simply not penetrating her
deeply? it is likely you are hitting her
cervix and causing her pain. and yeah,
porn is all fake lol. these people are
paid to look like they are having a good
time.
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Doriz
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Posted: 06-02-07 22:46pm
i have the same problem as your wife. My
boyfriend loves doing it doggy but it
really does feel uncomfortable... im not
too sure why... but we do enjoy haviing
sex in many other positions. you dont
always have to go back to missionary. try
mixing it up and explore a little bit more
and mabey you will find a position you'll
like more...
and dont ever refer to porn. its all
fake.. i never really believe the girl is
enjoying it. It probably hurts her too but
she has to suck it up because she's
getting paid... dont ever believe that and
dont expect your wife to do what they
do...
