i'm on the birth control patch so most of
the time, eventhough it's not safe, my
boyfriend ejaculates in me! than i end up
leaking and that often is painful. also
most of the time i'm swolen either on one
side or both, even when we use a condom.
its very very painful, especially when i
pee after sex! is there anyway i can avoid
all the pain, but still have the sex?
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Tylanas
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Re: Pain After Sex Posted: 05-30-07 23:07pm
i_wont_tell_ur_secrets
wrote:
i'm on the birth control
patch so most of the time, eventhough it's
not safe, my boyfriend ejaculates in me!
than i end up leaking and that often is
painful. also most of the time i'm swolen
either on one side or both, even when we
use a condom. its very very painful,
especially when i pee after sex! is there
anyway i can avoid all the pain, but still
have the sex?
If you are on the patch, then it is safe
for him to ejaculate inside of you. That's
why you use the patch in the first place!
Condoms or bare is not going to affect
much the friction you get inside your
vagina. It sounds like you're being way
too rough.
My advice is to first, give your vagina a
week or two to heal... no sex!
Masturbation is okay as long as it's not
rough. Then, after you're healed, try
having slower, gentler sex. Make sure to
use a ton of lubrication because it sounds
like you're too dry.
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flipper
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Re: Pain After Sex Posted: 05-31-07 15:45pm
i_wont_tell_ur_secrets
wrote:
i'm on the birth control
patch so most of the time, eventhough it's
not safe, my boyfriend ejaculates in me!
than i end up leaking and that often is
painful. also most of the time i'm swolen
either on one side or both, even when we
use a condom. its very very painful,
especially when i pee after sex! is there
anyway i can avoid all the pain, but still
have the sex?
Have you always been that way, or does it
only happen when a man ejaculates inside
of you?
My husband always comes in me as well, and
I get irritated from it, though not as
severely as you do. I always have to make
sure and take a shower or bath the next
morning to clean up, and then wear an
absorbent panty liner the next day to keep
me dry. TMI, I know, but maybe doing
something like that could help?
I've actually also heard cases of women
being allergic to their partner's semen,
but I admit that I don't know much about
that.
Quote:
Condoms or bare
is not going to affect much the friction
you get inside your vagina. It sounds like
you're being way too rough. . .Make sure
to use a ton of lubrication because it
sounds like you're too
dry.
Also good advice.
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Georgia59
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Posted: 06-01-07 15:11pm
This happened to me when I was on the
ring.... I don't know if it's the same
thing, but it didn't go away no matter how
much lube I used or how gentle we were
. I switched birth
control and it was all better.
Birth control can make you dry, and in
some cases even lube won't help. I would
suggest switching . If that doesn't help,
tell your doc. Something could be wrong.
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. I switched birth
control and it was all better.
