Hi, when iv had sex with my girlfriend she
has never orgasmed, is it more likely that
a girl will have an orgasm through me
fingering her? Iv fingered her a couple of
times before and my arm always seems to
get tired, but maybe thats because of the
position we are in when I finger her?
Whats the best or most comfortable
position to be in for fingering?
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MikeH90
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Posted: 05-31-07 08:26am
i think it depends on the woman. I had a
GF who only had an orgasm when I
fondled/kiss/licked her breasts.
My wife can orgasm during intercourse or
via oral. She doesn't particularly like it
when I use my finger.
I am not positive but I think the most
sensitive spot is her clitoris so sticking
your finger all the way in probably
doesn't do much for her to get her off.
Make sure your finger nails aren't sharp
long and jagged.
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fiona05
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Posted: 05-31-07 18:54pm
what works for one woman won't
neccessarily work for another cos everyone
is different. you just gotta find out what
she likes. personally fingersing does
nothing for me. i get off on sex and oral
sex.
what mike said is true, if by fingering
you mean sticking your fingers in and out
of her, this is unlikely to bring her to
orgasm because most women orgasm by
clitoral stimulation. the clitoris is
*extremely* sensitive though - more so
than a man's penis - so you have to be
gentle. try using some lube or spit to
keep things nice and slippery. ask her if
she would like it slower, faster, gentler,
harder. it's all about communication.
