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silvertax6966
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Feb 2004
Posts: 161
Location: new york city
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Xxxxx
Posted: 02-26-04 09:56am
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JillMarie
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Dec 2003
Posts: 3022
Location: Iowa
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Posted: 02-26-04 10:00am
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I hope you feel better soon! You didnt
want to have kids yet right? I think you
should wait if thats what you want. I
understand who you feel. What happens if
you have a baby and he is not around to
bond, help or at the worst what if
something happened to him and you were
left alone with a baby to raise. I feel
so bad for your situation. Im sure things
will work out for the best for you! Good
luck!
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silvertax6966
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Feb 2004
Posts: 161
Location: new york city
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Posted: 02-26-04 10:06am
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Mesmerizeu15
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Aug 2003
Posts: 2729
Location: Pittsburgh,PA
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Posted: 02-26-04 10:39am
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Sweetie, ihave told you before you need to
keep your chin up. If he doesnt wanna
settle down, but he wants to have a baby.
I am sorry but that man is confused and
doesnt know what the hell he wants. Good
luck sweets, you know I am here for you if
you need me
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silvertax6966
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Feb 2004
Posts: 161
Location: new york city
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Posted: 02-26-04 11:32am
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nikki_caro
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Aug 2003
Posts: 4921
Location: Right here at work!
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Posted: 02-26-04 11:40am
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He doesnt know what he wants yet, maybe
because of the war so just be patient. I
mean what if you get married and then he
leaves and passes away? Your gonna be a
widow so young. And you dont want that.
There are alot of scares and like Dr.
Phil would say, if he doesnt want to marry
like you do, *dont do it* there will be
problems. Just take it easy for now ok?
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silvertax6966
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Feb 2004
Posts: 161
Location: new york city
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Posted: 02-26-04 11:45am
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Mesmerizeu15
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Aug 2003
Posts: 2729
Location: Pittsburgh,PA
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Posted: 02-26-04 11:54am
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Are you still bleeding, call the doc and
tell them and if they wont listen go to
the hospital!!
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allusivepond
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Oct 2003
Posts: 452
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Posted: 02-26-04 17:25pm
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While it dont make sense to me to want a
baby but not get married (we are trying
for a baby and not planning on getting
married so I shouldnt really comment) but
maybe he wants a baby because hes going to
war, it might seem a bit backward but has
anyone tried seeing it from his point of
view. If he marries u and goes to war
and something happens u will be left alone
and he never really had a marriage only
the ceremony and paper side of it because
for the majority of the marriage he was
away and didnt see his wife on the other
hand if u had a child and something
happened u would have some piece of him to
hold onto and when he comes home he would
have the perfect family ready and waiting
for him.
While I know this isnt ideal maybe hes
scared in case he never comes back and he
wants to leave a piece of him behind.
Not that I would agree to those terms but
maybe thats how he feels.
From someone who cant wait to have a
jellybean all of thier own
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silvertax6966
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Feb 2004
Posts: 161
Location: new york city
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Posted: 02-26-04 18:39pm
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honeycoco
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Nov 2003
Posts: 375
Location: georgia
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Posted: 02-26-04 18:48pm
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I dont understand why his saying he want
marry you because he doesnt have money
that doesnt make sense. Hes in the
military and if you get married you make
more money. So hes lieing to u big time.
Believe me I know im in the air force.
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smith8500
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Sep 2003
Posts: 6623
Location: Louisiana
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Hey
Posted: 02-26-04 21:34pm
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Well girl, I hope everything works out.
Guys are confusing....Depressing... And
just plain horrible sometimes! Good luck
ok.
Love,
chanda
p.S. Do what makes you happy sweetie!
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silvertax6966
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Feb 2004
Posts: 161
Location: new york city
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Posted: 02-27-04 14:58pm
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mumof2
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 03 Feb 2004
Posts: 307
Location: Australia
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Posted: 02-28-04 20:34pm
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Look, if he is in the defence force be
proud that your man is willing to serve,
the defence forces are not only about
fighting for your own country they are
about defending freedom.......
My man leaves for the golf in a week and a
half....... He is leaving behind a 2 year
old and a 3 month old........... By the
time he gets back our children will not
know who he is apart for photos...... It
sucks, but that is his choice and I
support him for wanting to do what is
right....... I am sure that america would
have some sort of defence community
orginisation, join it, the other wifes are
great support and they feel how you feel,
cause their men are gone too...... You
are not the only one, remember that and
you will be fine......
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