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michelle1981

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Tanya !!! Posted: 05-31-07 23:32pm


h.a.p.p.y. b.i.r.t.h.d.a.y!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!! ~mwah~

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Posted: 05-31-07 23:32pm


thank you! : )

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Posted: 05-31-07 23:34pm


I just realized you are 3 hours behind........ i was just so eager

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Posted: 05-31-07 23:34pm


happy birthday lover!

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Posted: 05-31-07 23:42pm

michelle1981 wrote:

I just realized you are 3 hours behind........ i was just so eager Laughing

no i'm in ontario too you know. just like 2 and a half hours from where you live. i don't have my forum time set right though.

thanks terra

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Posted: 06-01-07 01:44am


happy birthday!

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Posted: 06-01-07 06:35am


HAppy Birthday Girl!!!! 18 now???

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Posted: 06-01-07 06:51am

tanyaface wrote:

michelle1981 wrote:

I just realized you are 3 hours behind........ i was just so eager Laughing

no i'm in ontario too you know. just like 2 and a half hours from where you live. i don't have my forum time set right though.

thanks terra

get your butt over here then Razz

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Posted: 06-01-07 07:22am

michelle1981 wrote:

tanyaface wrote:

michelle1981 wrote:

I just realized you are 3 hours behind........ i was just so eager Laughing

no i'm in ontario too you know. just like 2 and a half hours from where you live. i don't have my forum time set right though.

thanks terra

get your butt over here then Razz

Tanya, where are you on facebook??? I don't know your last name!!! When did u move back to Ontario???

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Posted: 06-01-07 07:42am


oops, i didn't see this so i wished you a happy birthday in sam's. happy happy birthday! doing anything fun?

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Posted: 06-01-07 08:20am


.happy .birthday .tanya!!

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Posted: 06-01-07 08:29am


i will michelle! eventually jess it's beetge and bridget erik was suppose to let me sleep in and watch rowan today so i could go out with my friend and get a tattoo and go with her while she got ready for prom. but mr fool went out all of last night and never showed up. and when i called him on his cell phone he said "it was just doing it mothers day and now you think you should have another day" even though he agreed to it yesterday, and that he would be here real soon (that was almost 2 hours ago). i might go out with my friends after they are all done with prom tonight. but erik won't be reliable again... anyways, my best pal's boyfriends birthday is on sunday so we thought we'd all get together and celebrate both birthdays on saturday, cause that's the day in between the two. though if i'm relying on erik i will just end up not doing anything i bet. yeah, 18. and thanks for all the birthday wishes.

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Posted: 06-01-07 08:34am


happy birthday beautiful! ooooh if he was my baby daddy,I wouldn't let him see her at all and find a good babysitter! I don't think a good father comes and goes as he pleases with their child.no repect what so ever Last edited by Willa Weintraub on 06-01-07 08:39am; edited 1 time in total

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Posted: 06-01-07 08:36am


Oh, that's so poopy of .erik! What is he thinking "another day off"!?!?! You watch her 24/7, what does he do? I'm pissed off at him for you! Wow. Penis.

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Posted: 06-01-07 08:41am

hopefulmjz wrote:

Oh, that's so poopy of .erik! What is he thinking "another day off"!?!?! You watch her 24/7, what does he do? I'm pissed off at him for you! Wow. Penis.

yeaaah ha. at first i was furious. i felt like crying. and i was thinking how can someone be such a effing selfish loser. real big man that kid. anyways. it'll all come back to him one day. it's going to be 18 years of rowan waiting around for a dad that's never going to show up when he's suppose to. just anticipating all the heart break and disappointment her daddy is going to cause her breaks my heart. he had a chance to give her a real dad, and he decided to be selfish, yet he can't even step up and try to be the kind of dad he denied her. but like i said... i'm going to try to be forgiving and wait for karma to kick in. everyone gets what they deserve in the end (well i hope).

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Posted: 06-01-07 08:45am


Good point. Karma's gonna give him a swift kick in the ass. I hope it's soon too. You are so strong, .tanya! Rowan is lucky to have you.

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Posted: 06-01-07 08:46am

~*~Melissa~*~ wrote:

happy birthday beautiful! Wink

ooooh if he was my baby daddy,I wouldn't let him see her at all and find a good babysitter! I don't think a good father comes and goes as he pleases with their child.no repect what so ever Evil or
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yeaaaah. i stay at his house when i'm not at my moms. his mom is good with her, and very helpful and i don't want to harm that relationship. but as soon as i find a place i'm definitely making sure he's paying child support and when visitations are set up with him one day i'm going to make sure i keep track of all the times he doesn't show up and everything else he does wrong. and hopefully when all that goes down i will be able to use it to make sure i get sole custody.

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Posted: 06-01-07 09:04am


Happy birthday!! I hope you have a wonderful day. (or weekend) And I just wanted to add my two cents... He sounds alot like my dad. He would only show up when he felt like it. I would get all dressed up for him to come and get me, then I would wait by the window in the living room waiting for him to show up. I would wait there all day because I knew he would be there. Then, my mom would come in and say, "oh, sweetie, I'm so sorry, he called a little bit ago and said he wouldn't be able to make it. I'm sorry, I must have forgotten to tell you" I would be so angry at her. It wasn't for a couple years after that. (at this point he had stopped showing up all together) That I realized, he never called. That was the only way my mom could think of to spare my feelings. Honestly, as much as it hurts to this day. If he genuinely doesn't want to be in my life, its probably better for me in the long run that he wasn't in it at all. It was alot easier to know he wasn't going to be there at all, rather than not knowing if I was important enough only half the time. That would have driven me crazy.

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Posted: 06-01-07 09:10am

mc4ever02 wrote:

Happy birthday!! I hope you have a wonderful day. (or weekend)

And I just wanted to add my two cents...

He sounds alot like my dad. He would only show up when he felt like it. I would get all dressed up for him to come and get me, then I would wait by the window in the living room waiting for him to show up. I would wait there all day because I knew he would be there. Then, my mom would come in and say, "oh, sweetie, I'm so sorry, he called a little bit ago and said he wouldn't be able to make it. I'm sorry, I must have forgotten to tell you" I would be so angry at her. It wasn't for a couple years after that. (at this point he had stopped showing up all together) That I realized, he never called. That was the only way my mom could think of to spare my feelings. Honestly, as much as it hurts to this day. If he genuinely doesn't want to be in my life, its probably better for me in the long run that he wasn't in it at all. It was alot easier to know he wasn't going to be there at all, rather than not knowing if I was important enough only half the time. That would have driven me crazy.

that is really sad. you made me cry! i don't want rowan to ever feel like she isn't important or special enough for his attention when infact he's not specail enough to deserve her.

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Posted: 06-01-07 09:18am

tanyaface wrote:

mc4ever02 wrote:

that is really sad. you made me cry! i don't want rowan to ever feel like she isn't important or special enough for his attention when infact he's not specail enough to deserve her.

I'm sorry, there was a point to that. (I was getting teary eyed and forgot Embarassed

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Anyways, I think it is a really good idea to note when he doesn't show up and everything else he does or doesn't do then go for sole custody. It really could do more damage with him only being there half the time than not at all.(if you had custody). That was my point..

Tanya !!!