we need advice my friend since 3rd grade
who is 13 has started to have sex with her
boyfriend who is of the age of 15 she
brags about it at school has other people
buy her condoms and is uninformed about
sexual deises etc and does not think she
can get pregnant i want to tell her mother
but i do not want our friendship to go to
the bottom because i care about her i am
only doing this for her own good i myself
was conceived from a young teen mother and
put up for adoption,i do not want her to
go through this since i myself have had
expericice with this. please any advice on
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Dannzibelle
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Posted: 06-02-07 07:23am
If she's getting other people to buy her
condoms then atleast she's doing one thing
right. it's not your place to tell her
mother but if you think it's the right
thing to do then go ahead. if someone is
determind to have sex then they will have
sex there's nothing you can do about it
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s_m_p
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Joined: 30 May 2007 Posts: 3 Location: florida
Posted: 06-02-07 08:12am
hi,my name is sarah, and i think u should
tell her mother in the long run she will
probobly thank u because she will not be a
mother. it is good that she has condoms
but remember they run out and that never
seems to stop people from going ahead with
out on so i thing u would really just be
doing her a favor be telling because u r
trying to protect her.
i am not a teenager any more im 23 now
but i was a teen mom at 16 and if i were u
i would help her.
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HcoBrunette06
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Posted: 06-02-07 09:34am
i don't see anything wrong with telling
her mom, shes a child and she doesn't know
what she's doing. a lot of girls that age
can be mature, but the fact that
she's bragging about it and uneducated yet
still going along with it makes her a
child.
you could try to educate her and tell her
all the things that could happen to her,
and tell her how easy it is to get
pregnant, and if she doesn't listen then
hell yeah id tell her mom. it might not be
your place, but who else is going to do
it? and if you tell her mom and her mom
talks to her about it maybe it'll give her
a reality check. who knows.
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meeoo
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Jun 2007 Posts: 2 Location: houston
Posted: 06-04-07 22:49pm
she's your friend try talking to her about
it, and how it bothers you and get some
info on STD's that she can see and read
but try to bring it up in a discreat way,
or leave it somewhere she can see it
changes are she will be curious and read
about it and hopefully be more carefull
and if you about getting pregnant I would
say birth control
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