Virtual Cheatings ..... planning a Breakup. Posted: 06-02-07 04:05am
hi
i believe i'm going to tell you a quite
amusing/tragicomic story. My girlfriend
and I have been together for 6 months and
we are on a long distance relationship but
we managed to catch up quite often, and
lately she was planning to move with me
for a few months. everything great and
cool. she is attractive and sort of
malicious, anyways nothing wrong with that
but.....
I wanted to test her and she failed
miserably.......
knowing how much she likes to chat (we met
ourselves online) I created a fake
account, fake photos, fake everything and
started to contact her asking for turistic
advices about her city coz I was going to
visit there with a bunch of friends.
Initally she was already very friendly, we
exchanged photos, and she got at once into
'me' after seing the photo.....
girls and guys.... to make a long story
short.... she started a whole sexual
innuendos and we ended on talking about
sex, in a very very intimate way!!
She proposed to take me out for a
coffe.... finally we planned an entire
flirt, and at the end she even asked me
for my phone number!!!!!!!! which i
invented and gave her....
I still didnt tell her anything.... it
happened just yesterday after all..... but
I really cant keep this any longer.... I'd
like so much just to call her and tell her
what a w**re she is but.... I dont wanna
do that.
I am planning the brake up. Any advices??
thanks a lot.
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Spirit
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Mar 2006 Posts: 388 Location: Canada
Posted: 06-02-07 21:21pm
Good one!..................sorry I don't
believe in the whole trust people no
matter what jazz...................be glad
you found out 6 months in than years later
like some folks..............
..............you might try asking her to
meet at a motel and see if she
shows..............disguise the voice and
ask her in................and there you
are on the bed!...................you'll
laugh about this some
day!?...............not impressed with
this "on line/long distance relationships"
bit....................too impersonal and
unreal, and everyone needs more than 6
months to get to know the real person
inside
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liamfoster
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Jun 2007 Posts: 2
Posted: 06-03-07 07:02am
thank you for your point of view.... shall
i break up with her or not , what do you
think?
shall i tell her? can this virtual
cheating be considered an actual one?
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Magical Logic
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 14 Mar 2006 Posts: 2248
Posted: 06-03-07 07:31am
Just dont talk to her anymore. she dont
care about your feelings. i would not
waste my time even telling her you know
what a w*ore she is.
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Spirit
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Mar 2006 Posts: 388 Location: Canada
Posted: 06-03-07 07:42am
Talkin to the opposite sex is one
thing...............but she wanted a phone
no.............talked sexually with a
stranger.............and asked you/him out
on a date?!......................and you
ask if this is real
cheating???.................I don't know
how old you are but I suspect really young
and probably what you consider your first
heavy relationship............
It's sad cause your
hurt...................but funny cause she
got caught..............not to be too
judgemental...................could you
pass this test if someone pulled it on
you?..............a hotter
chick?............perhaps coming at a
stressful/unsure moment in your
relationship? someone giving you attention
when you felt the other partner wasn't
living up to the
union?......................if you can
answer these questions
honestly........than perhaps you have your
solution.....................to forgive or
to move on
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DPantelones
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Jan 2007 Posts: 141 Location: ,
Thanks: 1
Thanked:1
Posted: 06-04-07 16:43pm
Spirit
wrote:
Good
one!..................sorry I don't
believe in the whole trust people no
matter what jazz...................be glad
you found out 6 months in than years later
like some folks..............
..............you might try asking her to
meet at a motel and see if she
shows..............disguise the voice and
ask her in................and there you
are on the bed!...................you'll
laugh about this some
day!?...............not impressed with
this "on line/long distance relationships"
bit....................too impersonal and
unreal, and everyone needs more than 6
months to get to know the real person
inside
DITTOS!!!!!!! Do the above and dump her
on the spot. You can't trust this person
now, you'll never be able to. If you stay
with her, you're a fool.
