Terra, my husband was almost the same way
after dating for a while. I think it hit
him after he truly felt deeply in love
with me.... why else would it bother them
so much?
So as much as it sucks right at this
moment, i think it means better things.
btw, he still hates to think about it.
Just a little advice, try never to bring
it up
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Emma2
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Posted: 06-04-07 08:20am
sorry but what is he mad about? if it is
something about your past then seriously
he needs to get over it because it is the
past and you cannot change it...its very
juvenile of him...let him fester in his
dramatic moment and in time he will see
how ridiculous it is to be upset over
things that didnt involve himand cannot be
changed.
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HcoBrunette06
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Posted: 06-04-07 08:46am
hes upset over the fact that i did stuff
with girls (when i was in the 4th and 6th
grades!!!!!) he wanted to be the only
person i've done stuff with, so i
understand. but yeah, i'd like to see him
happy now. this past week has been so hard
:/
and thanks mich! i was thinking about when
hes happy again saying something like "you
do realize that it's the past now and you
are my present and future" (someting that
you guys said which makes complete sense)
but you don't think i should? i'd
understand if you didn't, i just think he
needs to understand that, but maybe he can
do that on his own?
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Emma2
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Posted: 06-04-07 09:05am
HcoBrunette06
wrote:
hes upset over the fact that
i did stuff with girls (when i was in the
4th and 6th grades!!!!!) he wanted to be
the only person i've done stuff with, so i
understand. but yeah, i'd like to see him
happy now. this past week has been so hard
:/
and thanks mich! i was thinking about when
hes happy again saying something like "you
do realize that it's the past now and you
are my present and future" (someting that
you guys said which makes complete sense)
but you don't think i should? i'd
understand if you didn't, i just think he
needs to understand that, but maybe he can
do that on his
own?
ok but one more piece of advice...avoid
discussing past relationships in detail
with current bf....i learned the hard way
that some things are better left unsaid .
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HcoBrunette06
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Joined: 06 Dec 2005 Posts: 8016 Location: Florida, United States
and thanks mich! i was
thinking about when hes happy again saying
something like "you do realize that it's
the past now and you are my present and
future" (someting that you guys said which
makes complete sense)
but you don't think i should? i'd
understand if you didn't, i just think he
needs to understand that, but maybe he can
do that on his
own?
Definitely say that to him. He needs to
know that. Maybe it'll snap him back to
here and now, and not what you did when
you were in the 6th grade.
Just don't bring it up anymore after it's
been resolved
It'll be ok.. i promise!
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HcoBrunette06
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Joined: 06 Dec 2005 Posts: 8016 Location: Florida, United States
you're a great
help!!!