Can Orgasm x/ masturbation but not penetration ... what's wr Posted: 06-03-07 04:22am
I think I may have a problem. I have been
masturbating since I was 5yrs old. I wasnt
sexually malested or anything like that
but My parents would leave me home by
myself and they had porno channels. I
unfortunately came across it one day and
started masturbating from then on today. I
am now 23yrs old. Even when I first
started I would have orgasms. I didnt know
what they were called until I got alot
older. I had sex for the first time when I
was 15. This sucks but I never ever had an
orgasm having sex with any of the
boyfriends I've had. I am not permiscuous.
Only had sex with 4 guys my whole life.
But why do I get sooo much pleasure out of
masturbation and not sex? The boyfriend I
have now pleases me fine but I have not
had an orgasm with him. I want too really
bad. Did I damage something for me not to
have one with my boyfriend? Whats going on
and how do I have an orgasm while having
sex? Please help me.
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Sexual Health - Women Answer A2890 Posted: 06-13-07 04:11am
According to your description, it seems
that you are probably experiencing a kind
of sexual disorder called... "lack of
orgasm". However, it's not that you
experience a real lack of orgasm because
you can achieve orgasm via masturbation
.... it's that penetration does not bring
on an orgasm. The most common reasons for
lack of orgasm are inadequate sexual
stimulation and psycho-emotional causes.
It is hard to say what is the real cause
may be in your case but it seems that
watching porn-movies and masturbating at
the age of 5 may have psycho-emotional
consequences for an adult sexual life.
You probably have gotten used to achieving
orgasms by self-satisfaction. Why don’t
you try masturbating in front of your
partner? Then he could try satisfying you
by “fingering” or oral sex. Finally
you may achieve orgasm by penetration. You
will need some time to overcome the
problem.
You can ask for an expert opinion from a
psychiatrist who specializes in sexual
disorders, called a "sexologist".
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