Joined: 03 Jun 2007 Posts: 1 Location: salinas , puertorico
Harrassed Posted: 06-03-07 15:13pm
hello i am under alot of stress i was
assaulted at 2005 and the women that had
hurt me still haunts me .she calls my
phone in private and is stll bad mouthin
me with family and friends wit h the same
man that we both carry a children with
what should i do . she still haunts me in
mydreams should i face her .
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futurelovers
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Feb 2007 Posts: 101
Posted: 06-04-07 19:39pm
I've said this many times and I'll say it
again:
"The only way to overcome a fear is to
face it."
If she's still calling you, then you need
to find out where she lives and pay her a
visit. Don't do it alone though, bring
someone with you. If you can't figure out
where she lives, then get the police
involved...
You just can't let a fear keep
'frightening' you your whole life -
someday you will have to take action in
order to end that fear.
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MrMedic
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 27 May 2007 Posts: 22
Posted: 06-06-07 18:22pm
futurelovers
wrote:
If she's still calling you, then you need
to find out where she lives and pay her a
visit. Don't do it alone though, bring
someone with you. If you can't figure out
where she lives, then get the police
involved...
Don't even wait to find out where she
lives, just call your phone company and
the police. If you can remember the date
and time of one or more of the phone
calls, they can find her and arrest her
for aggrevated harassment. In addition to
the criminal charges, your tormenter can
also face civil action for intentional
infliction of emotional distress, among
other things.
You have the right to live your life
without having to fear someone else like
this. You deserve better than to take
this crap. Pick up the phone, and call
the authorities.