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Erion
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cheating girl
Posted: 06-04-07 15:41pm
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hi all....
i been in a relationship for nearly 3
years.. in the beggining everything was
nice and smooth.. as the days pass-by
things dont look so great...
firts i have found out that she was
chattin to a guy on msn and when i so the
messages she was going to meet him as she
felt for him so much..
2nd- she came home the other day so drunk
telling me that shes feelin for someone at
work and hes so cute.....
3rd shes going out alot with her friends (
or probebly) more then a friend and last
time she left home 9 in the morning and
came the next day 6 in the morning.... i
dont know what went on but i know she has
done something that day. as she came home
telling me im sorry that i hurted u and
she cryed all day while hugging and
kissing me ( i just dont understand) is
she feeling guilty about something that
she has done ...
and i have told her that look for you'r
own place to rent .... as he lives in my
flat.... but she dosent want to leave i
dont know whats wrong and i have had
enough of this.... getting hurt and so on
if there is someone to give me some advice
i would be very thankfull
with regards
Eri
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Spirit
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Posted: 06-06-07 05:15am
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It's called "taking you for
granted".................give her her
walking papers! 
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KatieFlower
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Posted: 06-06-07 06:43am
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It sounds to me like after she went out
for that whole day and night then she
started crying, it sounds like she cheated
on you and now she feels bad. She thinks
that no matter what she does you will
always be there when she is done having
fun for the night. Don't let her run you
over. There are better girls out there.
Good Luck 
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Willa Weintraub
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Posted: 06-06-07 09:55am
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wrote: | | It's called "taking you for
granted".................give her her
walking papers! |
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Erion
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Posted: 06-06-07 10:38am
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i have told her to move out this week or
so.... last time told her to move out she
went all mad and angry and fighting with
me till she called the police  i m sceard man...
i dono what she's into to... im not using
violent or something but last time police
belived her that i was threatning her to
throw her out in the middle of the night (
wich i never done or said)
"and shes sleeping in my house eating my
food etc etc"
and all her money goes into spending
(girls stuff) drink and fun
if i tell her to move out and find a place
she goes
( ohh yeah next week im gonna pack my
clouths)
and shes still here... i cant just throw
her clouths out and lock the door i feel
bad to do stupid things.. and if we sit
down and talk she will not take anything
serious
i dont wanna get into trouble or something
so that the police can nock on my door but
it dosent look like she takes things
serious even if we talk... i even told
her ok if u like some1 then go to them i
aint gonna stop u or anything.....
PS: i really dont know what the neck its
wrong with her...
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Fairy Godmother
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Hit the Curb!
Posted: 06-06-07 15:35pm
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You need to be a man about this and quit
dicking around......Pack her things up and
put them next to the door. If you need to,
call the sheriffs dept. and have them come
to your house and supervise while she
comes to get her thing. That way, she
can't say you are throwing her out or
being abusive. As long as you put up with
crap, she will dish it out.....the ball is
in your court Dude! Whose name is the
rental unit in? You need to explain this
to the Sheriffs Dept and tell them you
ahve tried to be civil but she won't
leave..............There are better girls
out there who won't take advantage of you!
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Erion
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Posted: 06-07-07 05:15am
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the flat its in my name.. with papers and
agreement.....she dont pay eny bills or
shopping food nether all she does is sleep
go out and come bak watever time she
wants... its like shes living in a hotel
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Fairy Godmother
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Hi
Posted: 06-07-07 14:20pm
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SOonds like a meth head to
me......................sleep and party?
You need to nip this in the bud and get
her outta there. The longer you wait, the
harder its gonna be............... You
hold the cards.............Good luck!
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dynamicdebz
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Posted: 06-08-07 16:20pm
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Listen to what everyone else on here as
adviced, they are all right. She has no
right walking all over you, I'm suprised
you've allowed this to go on.
Tell her to leave during the day, perhaps
make sure you have a friend with you who
can back you up if she calls the police,
female friend or relative would be
better.
You sound like a nice guy you don't need
or deserve this treatment, you know
yourself what she has done it's just
sometimes difficult to accept when we care
so much for someone.
Good luck!
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Erion
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Posted: 06-09-07 16:51pm
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i told her to leave and even pack her
cloths... but i feel so bad to just throw
her out like that ... and last night she
lied to me big time.. telling me that they
were short of staff at work and she had to
stay till late... and when i read her msg
on the phone she actually left work 8 in
the evening and went for a drink..... and
she was left in the middle of nowhere..
she was crying on the phone and i had to
book a taxi for 40£ to go and pick her up
and she was telling me that the last buss
dident came... so i just pretend that i
dident know anything... i guess shes just
taking advantage of me.. and im not into
fight or use violent.. i just want things
to go smooth and nice..
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Willa Weintraub
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Posted: 06-09-07 19:33pm
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| Erion
wrote: | | i told her to leave and even
pack her cloths... but i feel so bad to
just throw her out like that ... and last
night she lied to me big time.. telling me
that they were short of staff at work and
she had to stay till late... and when i
read her msg on the phone she actually
left work 8 in the evening and went for a
drink..... and she was left in the middle
of nowhere.. she was crying on the phone
and i had to book a taxi for 40£ to go
and pick her up and she was telling me
that the last buss dident came... so i
just pretend that i dident know
anything... i guess shes just taking
advantage of me.. and im not into fight or
use violent.. i just want things to go
smooth and
nice.. |
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Erion
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Posted: 06-12-07 15:05pm
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well i got big suprise loool she comes up
to me telling me that shes pregnant ....
and she knows that its me lol well i
havent been sleeping in the same bad as
her for nearly 2 months now so i dont
think i can look after some1 else kid...
and its all getting **** up
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Willa Weintraub
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Posted: 06-13-07 06:17am
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| Erion
wrote: | | well i got big suprise loool
she comes up to me telling me that shes
pregnant .... and she knows that its me
lol well i havent been sleeping in the
same bad as her for nearly 2 months now so
i dont think i can look after some1 else
kid... and its all getting ****
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