Ejaculation: Not Knowing? Posted: 06-05-07 10:07am
my bf and i started having sex, and before
i went on BC sometimes we use a condom
sometimes he would pull out. a few times i
thought it was weird he got close to
ejaculation so he would pull out to slow
down. well we would cont. on he would go
back inside me, but i asked him if he
came, and he said he didnt know..
is this normal?? not to know sometimes if
u came. I have to admit when i orgasm it
get pretty wet and sometimes its hard to
desifer if its me or him, but isnt there
some sort of feeling of release???
if anyone could help thanks! Im just
curious
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Georgia59
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Posted: 06-05-07 11:05am
Sorry, I can't really answer your
question.... but I wanted to make sure you
were aware that the pull-out method is not
reliable. Sperm can be present in pre-cum
and you can still get pregnant from it
even if he doesn't ejaculate in you.
Obviously, you're on bc now so it's all
good, but I just wanted to make sure you
knew...
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aszalajka
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Posted: 06-05-07 14:03pm
Yes i know its not a great method, but
thank you! i appeciate you letting me
know, because if i didnt know than its
great to know there are people on here
sharing good tips!
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Jaydensmommy
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Posted: 06-05-07 19:48pm
Most men know when they cum. Sounds to me
like he knew he did, but didn't want to
scare you or admit it to you or himself.
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HealthySex
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Joined: 09 Jan 2007 Posts: 414
Posted: 06-05-07 20:19pm
When a man ejaculates he usually has an
orgasm and would know. If he did not
orgasm, but did ejaculate he would still
usually be able to feel the contractions
and the emission.
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Shady41
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Posted: 06-07-07 09:58am
I cannot imagine any way a normal, healthy
male would not know if he had an orgasm or
not. I agree with a previous poster that
he said that in an effort to prevent you
from freaking out had you known he
ejaculated while inside your vagina.
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fiona05
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Posted: 06-07-07 18:16pm
my guy has this occasionally, if we are
stopping and starting to try and delay
ejaculation, sometimes he will go a bit
too far and ejaculate a bit but without
the sensation really... i've heard a lot
of guys say about that. i think it just
happens sometimes if the guy is trying
really hard to hold back but just mistimes
it a bit!!
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ashamedman
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Joined: 11 Jun 2007 Posts: 3
Re: Ejaculation: Not Knowing? Posted: 06-11-07 22:23pm
aszalajka
wrote:
my bf and i started having
sex, and before i went on BC sometimes we
use a condom sometimes he would pull out.
a few times i thought it was weird he got
close to ejaculation so he would pull out
to slow down. well we would cont. on he
would go back inside me, but i asked him
if he came, and he said he didnt know..
is this normal?? not to know sometimes if
u came. I have to admit when i orgasm it
get pretty wet and sometimes its hard to
desifer if its me or him, but isnt there
some stuff of feeling of release???
if anyone could help thanks! Im just
curious
i would say in my past experiences, about
95% of the time i knew i masturbated.
before i had PE i had control over when i
went. however sometimes i would feel like
i was going however nothing came out in
the condom and i would stay hard. other
times i could go and still stay hard. so
it was hard to tell.. defiantly it can be
hard to tell if you are doing the pulling
out method. if he wants to make sure he
pulls out in time he could pull out early
and have the sensation but not cum.. but
the majority of the time, us guys knows.
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aszalajka
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Joined: 29 May 2007 Posts: 103 Location: ,
Posted: 06-13-07 13:52pm
I know he was trying to hold back as much
as possible- hes trying to improve his
erection time. and i know too sometimes i
get really wet to the point that sometimes
i wonder if its me or him, LOL.
