Oral Sex: Not Feeling Fresh? Posted: 06-05-07 15:13pm
im wondering if other women feel the way i
do. I enjoy when my bf goes down on me,
but a lot of the times i stop him because
im scared about after being out all day
and it being 7-8 hours since i last
showered my vagina not being in teh best
"condition" that it could.
Is anyone else get paranoid about this?
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paystl
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Ahhh.yes!! Posted: 06-05-07 15:21pm
I really haven't met a woman or man that
hasn't felt that way. I will tell my
partner when we start to kiss and get into
it that I need to take a shower. usually
I'll say something whitty like, do you
wanna take one with me, so it doesn't seem
to kill the mood. Now, my husband and I
are on a good enough understanding that if
he starts to kiss my belly and I pull his
head up, it's because I'm not comfortable
with him going down. Sometimes, I'm over
paronoid and he'll go down anyway. Not to
be so bold but as they work their way
down, they know if all is a go down there.
But, I know exactly what you are talking
about.
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Anne123
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Posted: 06-05-07 15:24pm
Yes, but I feel self-consious about it
when it's the morning and we haven't
gotten out of bed yet.... so it has been
24 hours since my last shower.
I feel a little self-consious that I might
not be the freshest, but my husband
.L.O.V.E.S giving oral so his little moans
of delight remind me that I have nothing
to be self-consious about.
If you want to freshen up before bed, you
could keep a package of baby wipes in your
bathroom or purse. They're also handy
afterwards!
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aszalajka
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Posted: 06-05-07 15:25pm
I just feel weird, and basically i have
done the same thing with my bf, by pulling
him back up and kissing him. as for the
shower thing, it kinda stinks because my
bf lives with his brother and his bathroom
is right by his brothers bedroom LOL. and
its hard to keep tabs because its not like
we have sex everyday so i guess i can be
proactive and maybe just wash up a bit
before hand. that should work. it just
sucks because i dont want to kill the
mood, i mean in all reality i guess its
not a HUGE deal because i prefer sex over
oral anyways. LOL
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aszalajka
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Posted: 06-05-07 15:27pm
the baby wipes are a great idea. I never
thought about it. I always have to hunt
for a towel after sex to clean up. that
sometimes is a hassel because my bf lives
in the basement and the bathroom is up
stairs!
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paystl
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Joined: 17 May 2007 Posts: 29 Location: Atlanta
Posted: 06-05-07 15:29pm
Anne123
wrote:
If you want to freshen up before bed, you
could keep a package of baby wipes in your
bathroom or purse. They're also handy
afterwards!
"Always" makes a freshing wipe, in
tropical scents!! they come in individual
wraps too so, sometimes I freshen up
before I know I'm about to see him. Like
before I go home from work.
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Jaydensmommy
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Posted: 06-05-07 19:43pm
I buy the feminine wipes from "always" I
love them and always keep me feeling
fresh. Just use one before you see your
man if there isn't time to shower.
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Doriz
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Posted: 06-05-07 22:23pm
I know exactly what your talking about.
But to be completely honest with you most
of the time it is all in your mind that
your not fresh. I know i've found myself
doing that but my boyfriend always tells
me i worry too much.
The baby wipes are the best way to keep
fresh. I know i buy the big packs and
always put some in my purse before
leaving. I also buy the special feminine
wash to clean up my "area" real good. That
way i can be extra certain that it won't
be too bad by the end of the day.
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fiona05
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Posted: 06-07-07 07:00am
i would agree with the baby wipes idea. i
have found myself using them at times when
it is not appropriate to have a shower and
i may be receiving an oral treat they make me feel
more confident. however, i would suggest
that you try to keep away from the scented
wipes and just use unperfumed ones. if
your boyfriend likes to go down on you,
then i'm sure a lot of what he likes is
your natural smell and taste - dont spoil
it for him! even though perfumed wipes may
smell nice, i assure you they don't
*taste* nice!
they make me feel
more confident. however, i would suggest
that you try to keep away from the scented
wipes and just use unperfumed ones. if
your boyfriend likes to go down on you,
then i'm sure a lot of what he likes is
your natural smell and taste - dont spoil
it for him! even though perfumed wipes may
smell nice, i assure you they don't
*taste* nice!