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onlyhope4

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im 17 & 9 weeks pregnanat Posted: 06-05-07 18:43pm


Hey Im not sure if you all remember me or not. My names Tricia im 17 and im 9 weeks and 5 days pregnant. Ive told my boyfriend (James) and family and all went well. Until almost a month ago. I havent been on since so thats why im not sure if you remember me or not.. But i really need some suport from other teenage moms right now.. Or anyone who has been threw this.. Im completely lost.. James was extreamly excited about our baby and starting our own family.. My boyfriend was leaving my house one night (5-2-07) and was in a car accident on I-90 hitting a semi... He was killed instantly from impact.. He was my life, my only love, my unborn babies dad, and best friend for coming on 6 years.. It might sound weird.. But the only reason im alive is because of our baby. Its keeping me together and from giving up.. Please anyone who has anything to say.. I just need help..

*Vanessa*

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Posted: 06-05-07 19:41pm

onlyhope4 wrote:

Hey Im not sure if you all remember me or not. My names Tricia im 17 and im 9 weeks and 5 days pregnant. Ive told my boyfriend (James) and family and all went well. Until almost a month ago. I havent been on since so thats why im not sure if you remember me or not.. But i really need some suport from other teenage moms right now.. Or anyone who has been threw this.. Im completely lost.. James was extreamly excited about our baby and starting our own family..

My boyfriend was leaving my house one night (5-2-07) and was in a car accident on I-90 hitting a semi... He was killed instantly from impact..

He was my life, my only love, my unborn babies dad, and best friend for coming on 6 years.. It might sound weird.. But the only reason im alive is because of our baby.
Its keeping me together and from giving up..

Please anyone who has anything to say.. I just need help..

Tricia, My name is Vanessa, i am a teenager but im not a teen mum, i cant not relate to how you are feeling because i have not lost someone so close to me before, but i want you to know that i am here to talk to, as well as all the other lady's in this forum
I feel so deeply for you and your loss and i hope for your sake and your babys that you hold your head up high when it gets extra tough.
Please talk about it, how you are feeling about everything because that is the best thing you can do! Trust me.
Love Vanessa

i am grieving for you

mc4ever02

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Posted: 06-05-07 19:53pm


I'm so sorry for your loss. My first love was murdered when he was 15. (he was found the day before his 16th birthday.) It was awful. I was in a dark place for a long time, But I can not imagine what you must be feeling. You need to allow yourself to grieve. But, you have to look ahead. What has happened is done, there is nothing you can do about it. You have a child that you need to think of. You need to take care of yourself so that you can take care of your child. I wish there was more that I could do. I'm here for you. Anytime. Feel free to pm me. ~Big hug~

babyAndy

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Posted: 06-05-07 23:53pm


I truly am so sorry for your loss...I cant imagine what you are going through. One thing I cant help but thinking, despite this horrible experience, you have something amazing. His child. You have a huge piece of him, to raise, and love, and share the memories of this wonderful person that was your love and your little loves father. I know it must be so hard and you are missing him dearly, but like you said, keep your head up high, embrace this little one.

HcoBrunette06

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Posted: 06-06-07 00:02am


i remember you, oh my god that's absolutely horrible. i can not imagine, im so sorry you had to go through this you're a strong girl, if i was in your situation i probably wouldn't be on right now at all, i wouldn't want to talk to anyone... hugs im proud of you for holding on through this! im so sorry. were all here for you!

ANGELOS MAMA

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Posted: 06-11-07 13:24pm


im so sorry for you lost.at least you have a remembrance of your boyfriend.this will help you to move on with life.i have no idea how it feels to lose someone that young.i mean im only 17 && i have a 1 year old babyboy,&& to be honest i dont know how i would do it without him.but im here if you wanna talk.

young Girl

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Posted: 06-22-07 13:12pm


hey tracia please let me know if you need anything. i know youll get alot of support on this forum it seems like theres alot of nice people here :] im really sorry for what happened. if anything like that ever happened to travis i would probly only be here because of our baby too :/ you are a strong girl...

kerryn

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Joined: 26 Jun 2007
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Posted: 06-26-07 16:50pm


hey, i feel soooo bad for you, i know what it is to lose someone unexpectedly that means the world to you. If you need anything at all im here for you just like everyone else here. Youre an inspiration to a lot of people because you are still here. Remember you will get through this, and youll always have a memory of the love you had Hugs!

ShiningShannon

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Posted: 06-26-07 17:10pm


Hi Tricia, I am so sorry for you loss. I do remeber you! My name is shannon. I cant imagine what you've been through, stay strong!

LittleCaseysMommyJen

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Posted: 06-27-07 04:23am


Het tricia, My name is Jen. . . I'm 18 with a one yr. old baby boy. I was 16 when I got preggers and had him when I was 17. I can't say that I know exactly how you feel and I am so sorry for your loss but I understand how it is to loose someone you care about. Just know that along with all the other females on the forum we are all here for you. . to help with anything and everything.

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