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leslie_m
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 07 Apr 2007 Posts: 12 Location: Louisiana
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Update And Help!!
Posted: 06-06-07 20:09pm
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ok im that 16 yr old girl. that the dad
was in cali and didnt want the baby. and
was afraid my perents wouldnt like my
child cuz it is going to be half mexican.
ok whew! its been a while. im now 14 weeks
pregnate AND the dad is BACK in our lives.
and was just scared but now he knows he
has to grow up and do this, we both
do.  and the family is
ok with everything. ok
NOW that thats over with  ok the
doctor hasnt explained this to me YET BUT
now that im pregnate my discharge is
heaver then it used to be. i barely done
it. but NOW jeez. i feel icky. and my hair
is starting to fall out more. not like in
clumps but i didnt used to this much and
now its every time i shower. is these
things happening to me cuz im pregante or
is it just me? and if it IS me i need help
right?!? abd any tips on how to balnace
highschool and pregnancy?? please asnwer
back soon i need some anwers!
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CaNdItAs CrAzY LaNd
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Posted: 06-06-07 22:24pm
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pregnant hunny ok now lets see hair
falling out and heavy discharge are normal
part of pregnancy but yet not all women go
thru this lucky them I unfortunately did
go thru it wear pantliners it does help
keep you dry and fresh feeling. hair thing
nothing you can do about that but dont
worry it does grow back sometimes better
then before. glad to hear all is good with
father and family please if you need
anything such as to vent or chat feel free
to pm me ok best of luck to ya hun.
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leslie_m
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 07 Apr 2007 Posts: 12 Location: Louisiana
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Posted: 06-07-07 07:54am
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thank you candita. that clears things up:)
and i will. thank you.
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Mommy35
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Joined: 23 Sep 2006 Posts: 3165 Location: Vacationland, USA,
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Posted: 06-07-07 08:05am
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Yup, all normal. My hair kind of did the
same thing, but now (after pregnancy) it
is thicker and healthier than ever.
I have no idea how to balance high school
and pregnancy. Others on her have or are
doing it. I'm sure they can give you some
tips on how they managed. My advice would
be: Don't use your pregnancy as an excuse
for not being able to do things. Don't
expect people to give you special
treatment. Just work hard. I would think
that being in school while your pregnant
would be the easy part. Just imagine when
you have to get up during the night for
feedings or a fussy baby, and then get up
and get yourself and a baby ready so you
can make it to school on time. Then when
you get home you need to do your homework,
but the baby needs to be fed, changed, and
cuddled. Wow! I honestly couldn't
imagine!!! I work and have to be there at
8:00am, and have a really hard time
getting everything I need to have done.
I wish you all the best and congrats on
finially getting everything straightened
around with your families.
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CaNdItAs CrAzY LaNd
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Posted: 06-07-07 08:11am
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you might also want to talk to some of the
young ones in teen preg site they might be
able to help wait i think let me get back
just a sec.....
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CaNdItAs CrAzY LaNd
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Posted: 06-07-07 08:13am
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dannzabell i think that is how it is
spelled she is 15 and in school and preg
but there are othersa on the teen site and
the preg chat forum that are young in
school with a baby you can do it hun it is
hard but you can.
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leslie_m
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 07 Apr 2007 Posts: 12 Location: Louisiana
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Posted: 06-07-07 10:13am
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thanks everyone. and yes i will talk to
danzabell. i dont like the fact that i
cant do a lot of the things i used to
could do. but its all worth it at the end
right!?? yeah i dont used me being
pregnate as an excuse at home. i used to
sleep on a very HEAVY hide-a-bed that i
had to put up every morning. it weighs a
little over 100pds its an antique. but now
i have a regular bed cuz they were afraid
id hurt my self putting the bed in and
out. since you have tobend over and pull
and sqat and stuff. but i could never get
help taking it in or out. but finally
thats over with:) i have another
question.
i live in louisiana and tornadoes happen
atleast twice a yr here. and my biggest
fear is wind. i know its stupid. but thats
been my fear since i can remember. so
every time the weather looks bad i stress.
and before i got pregnate when i got
worried and stressed my belly would hurt
badly. and now that im pregnate it hurts
WORSE. am i hurting my baby when i worrry?
if so is there anything i can do? ill
never get over my fear.
and this qestion. im a teen as you all
know. and like all teens ive had horrible
depression. anough to do stupid things.
but im over that. been over it for about 2
yrs. but now that im pregnate i get sad
real easy. am i going to relapse in to bad
depression or is it just a mood swing???
this has me very scared. pls help.
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CaNdItAs CrAzY LaNd
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Posted: 06-07-07 11:31am
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I would talk to your dr tell them about
your depression and history of it and
sounds like panic attacks about weather
but again tell dr about it too ok.
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negar
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 08 Feb 2007 Posts: 278 Location: san francisco
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Posted: 06-07-07 11:33am
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Hi Leslie,
Congrats on your pregnancy. I just wanted
to add pre natal vitamins incase you are
not taking them yet. Mood swing are very
very normal. When you feel them, remind
yourself that it's your hormones and don't
freak out. Stress is not good for you or
your baby. Find something that can help
you with that. Music and candles, a walk,
funny movies, or whatever works for you.
Take care
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Eyes Wide Shut
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Joined: 04 Jan 2006 Posts: 7892 Location: *UPTOWN*NEW ORLEANS*, La
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Posted: 06-07-07 16:05pm
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I live in .louisiana, and I'd be more
worried about hurricanes than tornadoes.
lol.
Sarah
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Dannzibelle
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Posted: 06-08-07 06:53am
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It's normal to feel upset about not being
able to do everything the average teen
does, but things can be done! I never
thought i would be sitting my final exams
two weeks away from my due date but here i
am five exams down and four to go!
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