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Mike-USA

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Erection Problems And Other Sex Problems
Posted: 06-06-07 23:00pm

OK, I am 100% heterosexual and sex is great with a woman. Let me explain a few things on how I am with a sexual partner and some of the problems. Been divorced for 20 years, I am 61, slim and single with a high sexual drive.

Local Problems (USA): Crying
or Very sad

1. I have no interest in any women near my age or overweigh (over 125 pounds).

2. I prefer dating average slim attractive women in their 30's but this is impossible where I live in my big NC city. These women do not want any man more than 10 years their age. They all seem to have an attitude problem, use profanity in public, think I am an "old goat" and a pervert. They all have a hang up on numbers unless you are very wealthy.

3. Because of all this, I have had no interest in any American Women for years, so my only choice is with a Latin woman. Most prefer an older mature man, so I travel outside the USA once or twice a year to meet a few single Latin ladies.

Sexual Problems: Confused

4. When I am with a Latin woman, her passionate kisses make me get an erection in just a few minutes. Now when we first go to the bedroom and have sex, I sometimes ejaculate too soon, within a few minutes before she has an orgasm.

5. Now if this woman spends the whole day with me at my apartment, then we have sex 3, 4 and sometimes 5 times a day. During some of these times I cannot keep a full erection during sex, after a few minutes (maybe 5 or 10 minutes) and there are some times where I cannot ejaculate because of this. I feel like this may be very disappointing for her.

6. It seems that I have lived alone most of my adult life and when I am with a woman, I go sex crazy. I just got back from outside the USA, spent 2 days with a Latin lady, had sex 4 times the first day (did not ejaculate 2 of those times) and 3 times on the next day.

I just want to be able to proform 99% when I am with a woman. . . . Thanks for reading my problem and any help you have to offer.
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Georgia59

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Posted: 06-07-07 12:55pm

It sounds like you need to get a reality check.

Why not date women your age?

125 lbs is not overweight.

Are you really only interested in sex?? You don't seem to care about these women that you are using at all.

I'm not surprised that you're divorced.
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Llewellyn

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Posted: 06-07-07 13:49pm

I agree with Georgia.
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Mike-USA

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Posted: 06-07-07 14:10pm

Georgia59 wrote:
It sounds like you need to get a reality check.

Why not date women your age?

125 lbs is not overweight.

Are you really only interested in sex?? You don't seem to care about these women that you are using at all.

I'm not surprised that you're divorced.


I am divorced from a woman that was my own age and most American have a attitude problem and most think they are better than a man. I think of everybody as a equal, the same, Equal Rights.
Maybe you prefer overweight older women, I prefer younger women that does not weigh more than I do. I weight 145 and I did not say 125 was over weight.

I do not tell anybody who they should date. This is a free country to where I can make my own choice and preference as to who I date. There are older women that date younger men, that is their preference. I do not prejudge them for that. I keep my nose out of others peoples business.

That is what is bad about most Americans, too many busy bodies here. If a woman thinks I am too old for them, I have no problem with that. I think them for telling me at first so I can move on and not waste my time with them.

No, I am not only interested in just sex. I do not have sex with every woman I meet and do not care to either. I have to care and love a woman first, which goes the same for them toward me. A relationship is based on 50/50, being compatible with the first 50% and the last 50% being able to perform sexually for your partner. No woman wants half a man and no man wants half a woman, no one can be happy this way.
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fiona05

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Posted: 06-07-07 18:32pm

if you were after any kind of meaningful relationship with a woman, then her looks would not come first. i think what you are really after is a trophy girlfriend.

i have to agree with the others. start being realistic and open minded, or i'm sure you will find yourself becoming a very very lonely man.
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