Erection Problems And Other Sex Problems Posted: 06-06-07 23:00pm
OK, I am 100% heterosexual and sex is
great with a woman. Let me explain a few
things on how I am with a sexual partner
and some of the problems. Been divorced
for 20 years, I am 61, slim and single
with a high sexual drive.
Local Problems (USA):
1. I have no interest in any women near my
age or overweigh (over 125 pounds).
2. I prefer dating average slim attractive
women in their 30's but this is impossible
where I live in my big NC city. These
women do not want any man more than 10
years their age. They all seem to have an
attitude problem, use profanity in public,
think I am an "old goat" and a pervert.
They all have a hang up on numbers unless
you are very wealthy.
3. Because of all this, I have had no
interest in any American Women for years,
so my only choice is with a Latin woman.
Most prefer an older mature man, so I
travel outside the USA once or twice a
year to meet a few single Latin ladies.
Sexual Problems:
4. When I am with a Latin woman, her
passionate kisses make me get an erection
in just a few minutes. Now when we first
go to the bedroom and have sex, I
sometimes ejaculate too soon, within a few
minutes before she has an orgasm.
5. Now if this woman spends the whole day
with me at my apartment, then we have sex
3, 4 and sometimes 5 times a day. During
some of these times I cannot keep a full
erection during sex, after a few minutes
(maybe 5 or 10 minutes) and there are some
times where I cannot ejaculate because of
this. I feel like this may be very
disappointing for her.
6. It seems that I have lived alone most
of my adult life and when I am with a
woman, I go sex crazy. I just got back
from outside the USA, spent 2 days with a
Latin lady, had sex 4 times the first day
(did not ejaculate 2 of those times) and 3
times on the next day.
I just want to be able to proform 99% when
I am with a woman. . . . Thanks for
reading my problem and any help you have
to offer.
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Georgia59
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Joined: 11 Apr 2007 Posts: 5539 Location: Along the Mississippi, USA
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Posted: 06-07-07 12:55pm
It sounds like you need to get a reality
check.
Why not date women your age?
125 lbs is not overweight.
Are you really only interested in sex??
You don't seem to care about these women
that you are using at all.
I'm not surprised that you're divorced.
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Llewellyn
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Jan 2007 Posts: 1743 Location: NY
Posted: 06-07-07 13:49pm
I agree with Georgia.
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Mike-USA
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Jun 2007 Posts: 3
Posted: 06-07-07 14:10pm
Georgia59
wrote:
It sounds like you need to
get a reality check.
Why not date women your age?
125 lbs is not overweight.
Are you really only interested in sex??
You don't seem to care about these women
that you are using at all.
I'm not surprised that you're
divorced.
I am divorced from a woman that was my
own age and most American have a attitude
problem and most think they are better
than a man. I think of everybody as a
equal, the same, Equal Rights.
Maybe you prefer overweight older women, I
prefer younger women that does not weigh
more than I do. I weight 145 and I did not
say 125 was over weight.
I do not tell anybody who they should
date. This is a free country to where I
can make my own choice and preference as
to who I date. There are older women that
date younger men, that is their
preference. I do not prejudge them for
that. I keep my nose out of others peoples
business.
That is what is bad about most Americans,
too many busy bodies here. If a woman
thinks I am too old for them, I have no
problem with that. I think them for
telling me at first so I can move on and
not waste my time with them.
No, I am not only interested in just sex.
I do not have sex with every woman I meet
and do not care to either. I have to care
and love a woman first, which goes the
same for them toward me. A relationship is
based on 50/50, being compatible with the
first 50% and the last 50% being able to
perform sexually for your partner. No
woman wants half a man and no man wants
half a woman, no one can be happy this
way.
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fiona05
Supporter
Joined: 21 Dec 2005 Posts: 663 Location: , Norn Iron
Posted: 06-07-07 18:32pm
if you were after any kind of meaningful
relationship with a woman, then her looks
would not come first. i think what you
are really after is a trophy girlfriend.
i have to agree with the others. start
being realistic and open minded, or i'm
sure you will find yourself becoming a
very very lonely man.