I’ve learned as I’ve gotten older not
to dwell on things that I can’t change,
i.e. my mother. Now that I’m an adult
with a little life experience under my
belt, children of my own, forging my own
path, making my own story no longer a
little girl, confused. I now see that my
mother has a lot of issues, long standing
issues, pre-my brother and I. But she
doesn’t see it the same way and tends to
reflect a lot her issues onto myself and
others.
Her attitude and behavior his really
causing trouble in my relationship with
her.
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bloss
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Dec 2007 Posts: 1
Troulbled Mother Posted: 12-11-07 22:06pm
Yeah , my problem is that I still need
recognization for what I do. i still
regarding my mothers point of view as
important but until now because I am
constantly getting hurt I have very
little to do with my mother and this is
unnerving for me and she is always
tellilng me so. I have anxiety and panic
attack and suffered from depression
because it was all to much.