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poppypot
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Female/female Sex-how Do I Get It Right?
Posted: 06-09-07 03:22am
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So I really like women and have had
several sexual incounters with women now
but they are often a bit of a guddle! With
a man and woman it is kind of obvious what
goes were and how you fit together but how
can I have sex with a woman and both of us
have pleasure at the same time?
Also does there have to be a dominant
partner?
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Llewellyn
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Posted: 06-09-07 13:23pm
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No, there does not have to be a dominant
partner.
There are many ways that two women can
have sex or pleasure each other at the
same time. There isn't a "right" way or a
"wrong" way to do it. So pretty much
anything you can think of would be ok to
try if your partner is willing. Some
female/female couples make use of toys,
while others just use their bodies.
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Tylanas
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Posted: 06-09-07 14:36pm
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"I can't even imagine how two women would
do it, unless they just like.. scissored
or something..." ~ ms. garrison,
southpark.
There are a ton of ways two women can have
sex... I know it may sound contrary, but
try looking up lesbian porn just for ideas
of positions, or a lesbian karma sutra
 Also, toooys. Strap
ons, double-ended dildos... Lots of fun.
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poppypot
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Posted: 06-10-07 12:26pm
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MikeH90
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Posted: 06-13-07 11:09am
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i find it kinda funny that two women would
use strap ons. Why not just use the real
thing then?
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sillyakchick
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Posted: 06-13-07 11:10am
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| MikeH90
wrote: | | i find it kinda funny that
two women would use strap ons. Why not
just use the real thing
then? |
Maybe they don't like men?
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MikeH90
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Posted: 06-13-07 11:14am
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| sillyakchick
wrote: | | MikeH90
wrote: | | i find it kinda funny that
two women would use strap ons. Why not
just use the real thing
then? |
Maybe they don't like
men? |
well then you shouldn't get to use a *enis
then.
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sillyakchick
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Posted: 06-13-07 11:20am
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| MikeH90
wrote: | | sillyakchick
wrote: | | MikeH90
wrote: | | i find it kinda funny that
two women would use strap ons. Why not
just use the real thing
then? |
Maybe they don't like
men? |
well then you shouldn't get to use a ***
then. |
Having one's "space" filled is not the
same as having a man in one's bed.
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Tylanas
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Posted: 06-13-07 11:21am
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| MikeH90
wrote: | | sillyakchick
wrote: | | MikeH90
wrote: | | i find it kinda funny that
two women would use strap ons. Why not
just use the real thing
then? |
Maybe they don't like
men? |
well then you shouldn't get to use a *enis
then. |
Mike, don't post such sexist stupidity.
I've been asked this question before too.
"Why do lesbians wear strap ons?"
Well, just because you don't like men,
doesn't mean you don't enjoy the feeling
of being filled to the brim and thrusted
into. It's an amazing feeling, and only a
straight, clueless, unimaginative man could
ever think otherwise. Even gay men get it.
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Tylanas
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Posted: 06-13-07 11:22am
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| sillyakchick
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Having one's "space" filled is not the
same as having a man in one's
bed. |
Precisely.
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MikeH90
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Posted: 06-13-07 11:23am
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| sillyakchick
wrote: | | MikeH90
wrote: | | sillyakchick
wrote: | | MikeH90
wrote: | | i find it kinda funny that
two women would use strap ons. Why not
just use the real thing
then? |
Maybe they don't like
men? |
well then you shouldn't get to use a *enis
then. |
Having one's "space" filled is not the
same as having a man in one's
bed. |
but your filling the space with what a man
provides. If you don't like the man you
can't have his ***. Kinda like when my
wife divorced me, fine I said, but you
can't keep using my last name.
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Tylanas
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Posted: 06-13-07 11:25am
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| MikeH90
wrote: | | sillyakchick
wrote: | | MikeH90
wrote: | | sillyakchick
wrote: | | MikeH90
wrote: | | i find it kinda funny that
two women would use strap ons. Why not
just use the real thing
then? |
Maybe they don't like
men? |
well then you shouldn't get to use a ****
then. |
Having one's "space" filled is not the
same as having a man in one's
bed. |
but your filling the space with what a man
provides. If you don't like the man you
can't have his ***. Kinda like when my
wife divorced me, fine I said, but you
can't keep using my last
name. |
Mike... stop being stupid. You don't get
it. You're not a woman, first of all. SO
don't go telling lesbians what they can
and cannot do in the bedroom. You have no
right.
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Posted: 06-13-07 11:27am
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| Eiri
wrote: | | MikeH90
wrote: | | sillyakchick
wrote: | | MikeH90
wrote: | | sillyakchick
wrote: | | MikeH90
wrote: | | i find it kinda funny that
two women would use strap ons. Why not
just use the real thing
then? |
Maybe they don't like
men? |
well then you shouldn't get to use a ***
then. |
Having one's "space" filled is not the
same as having a man in one's
bed. |
but your filling the space with what a man
provides. If you don't like the man you
can't have his ***. Kinda like when my
wife divorced me, fine I said, but you
can't keep using my last
name. |
I'm not saying that they can't do it. I
could care less what ANYONE does in their
bedroom. I just said I find it funny that
they need to use what I man has to get off
when they don't like men.
Mike... stop being stupid. You don't get
it. You're not a woman, first of all. SO
don't go telling lesbians what they can
and cannot do in the bedroom. You have no
right. |
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Tylanas
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Posted: 06-13-07 11:33am
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Have you ever seen a real strap on? Not a
lesbian-porn one. A real one. They don't
look much like ***, nor do most ***.
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Posted: 06-13-07 11:35am
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| Eiri
wrote: | | Have you ever seen a real
strap on? Not a lesbian-porn one. A real
one. They don't look much like ***, nor do
most ***. |
i know but the intent is the same. I think
you guys misunderstood my original post.
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Posted: 06-13-07 11:49am
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| MikeH90
wrote: | | Eiri
wrote: | | Have you ever seen a real
strap on? Not a lesbian-porn one. A real
one. They don't look much like ***, nor do
most ***. |
i know but the intent is the same. I think
you guys misunderstood my original
post. |
I'm pretty sure we understood completely,
and we don't like what you were implying.
That's like saying gay men shouldn't want
to have anal sex because they clearly
don't want to be enveloped by a vagina, so
why would they want to be enveloped by
anything else?
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Posted: 06-13-07 11:53am
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Perhaps the act of vaginal insertion seems
on the outside to be the same. But if
this is so, then you wouldn't mind putting
your *** into anything that resembles an
orifice, right? The mannerism, shape,
feel and attitude of a woman are clearly
different from that of a man, I am sure
you would agree. So therefore, if a woman
is what is attractive to a person, that is
a separate issue from the sexual act
involved. If this were not so, then you
wouldn't mind having gay sex with a man.
After all, it's the same thing, right?
The act of sex is so much smaller than the
importance of who it is with.
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Posted: 06-13-07 11:58am
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| MikeH90
wrote: | | sillyakchick
wrote: | | MikeH90
wrote: | | sillyakchick
wrote: | | MikeH90
wrote: | | i find it kinda funny that
two women would use strap ons. Why not
just use the real thing
then? |
Maybe they don't like
men? |
well then you shouldn't get to use a ***
then. |
Having one's "space" filled is not the
same as having a man in one's
bed. |
but your filling the space with what a man
provides. If you don't like the man you
can't have his penis. Kinda like when my
wife divorced me, fine I said, but you
can't keep using my last
name. |
Nobody is asking to use .Y.O.U.R. ***. Or
any man's for that matter. A*** is not a
***. it is a ***.
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Posted: 06-13-07 12:01pm
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Yeah. If it was all about "long object and
orifice" then everyone would be bisexual,
wouldn't they? But clearly, people are
not. I want a real **nis in me attached to
a real man. I do not want breasts pressing
against my back. The thought of sex with
another woman slightly frightens me most
of the time.
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Posted: 06-13-07 12:35pm
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Let me guess, Mike is probably the kind of
guy who thinks men who enjoy anal
stimulation are all gay, right? Also,
according to your logic, Mike, wouldn't
people who masturbate be gay? And
wouldn't putting fingers into a vagina be
pointless? It would kind of the same as
using a sex toy.
Mike, where and how a person likes to be
stimulated has nothing to do with whom
they are attracted to.
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