Why Does the Thought of Sex With Men Feel Uncomfortable? Posted: 06-10-07 12:35pm
Why do I think a man having sex with a
woman is disrespectful?
There are some men I find attractive but I
dont want to sleep with them unless Im
drunk
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Tylanas
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Posted: 06-10-07 14:48pm
Well, it seems you have either gotten some
bad influences from common culture... or
you're just lesbian and prefer women.
That's okay too. Not every female has to
enjoy or even want sex with men.
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poppypot
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Joined: 07 Jun 2007 Posts: 36 Location: UK
Posted: 06-10-07 15:06pm
When I think about the guys I have been
with and how I felt about them I liked the
security or the attention, I liked the way
they looked at me and made me feel
special, i liked them cus they were
interesting and apparently nice people. I
do look at some men and get a little
flutter and I have had sex with men and
enjoyed it. Also my last relationship my
b/f was abusive so i dont want my
sexuality to be influenced buy something
negative I often dream of
women, and dreamt about the hottest chick
last night, there was a guy in it (Gordon
Ramsay) who was touching her and that was
sexy. Sorry Im rambling
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Tylanas
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Posted: 06-10-07 15:10pm
Hey, everyone has their own opinions about
sex.
If the relationship is loving and the sex
consentual, then it is not degrading for a
man to have sex with a woman, or vice
versa. That goes for same-sex
relationships too.
It's all about respect for yourself and
your partner
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Lion79
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Posted: 06-11-07 06:20am
It doesn't sound like you're a lesbian or
anything, and even though you have these
dreams about women etc it doesn't mean you
are. Maybe you don't think a man having
sex with a woman is disrespectful; maybe
it's the situation when you see it. Or you
might just have a bit of a fear about sex
and allowing aomeone complete access to
your body. As Eiri said before, it could
be that you recieved bad influences about
sex, that maybe made you feel it was wrong
or dirty. I know how that feels, I was
always told (primarily by my dad) not to
let guys touch me, bad things will happen
etc and now I can't even enjoy sex because
it causes me pain, and I think this one of
the reasons why.
JUst remember that sex isn't 'wrong'
whether it's man/woman man/man woman/woman
or whatever. It's only disrespectful if it
is done against a partner's wishes.
Gordon Ramsay eh? Not someone I've dreamt
of myself lol but I can sort of see why
you would! lol
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I often dream of
women, and dreamt about the hottest chick
last night, there was a guy in it (Gordon
Ramsay) who was touching her and that was
sexy. Sorry Im rambling 
