Joined: 03 Feb 2004 Posts: 307 Location: Australia
Confused....... Posted: 02-28-04 22:12pm
Well friday was my b'day and I went out
with some friends of mine..... We all
ended up at my mate karens house and
started playing truth or dare... Well my
friend kelly ( who has 2 small children)
asked if I would sleep with her, I am not
a lesbein, bi, or even bi curiouse so I
said no, and she got really offended....
My problem is I never even new that she
was bi and ive done all those things that
friends do, ie/ kiss hello, bye, hug ect,
so what do I do now, I still want to be
her friend, but things will be weird
between us, like doi still kiss her
hello?????
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PregnaJordan
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Oct 2003 Posts: 2908
Posted: 02-28-04 22:14pm
Is that how u greet people in australia?
I dunno, we dont do that up here in
america! So if its custom, continue I
guess, if not, I wouldnt!!!
She might try and slip u some tounge!
Jordan andjaydyn
Wow. I've never been through that. Well,
I lie. One of my former friends told me
she was in love with me..... Wow. Well,
I continued being her friend and ya know,
hugs and stuff. But I always let her know
I didn't want more than her
friendship.....
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mumof2
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 03 Feb 2004 Posts: 307 Location: Australia
Posted: 02-29-04 08:06am
Thanks..... In answer to your question,
yes that is how we aussies say hello to
close friends, we kiss cheeks and hug....
Not just any one though, you have to be
friends/ family, ect..... Verry few
people will cheek kiss on the first
meeting, unless its some ones granny, they
always cheek kiss...Hehehe
oh, and how did u get across that u didnt
want her advances.... Ie did you just
say"this makes me uncomfertable, lets not
talk about it?"
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Mesmerizeu15
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Aug 2003 Posts: 2729 Location: Pittsburgh,PA
Posted: 02-29-04 13:53pm
I would just tell her that yopu arent
interested in things like that. I would
just tell her how you feel..
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allusivepond
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Oct 2003 Posts: 452
Posted: 03-01-04 02:48am
I can so relate im not bi and have never
had any lesbian tendencies but when I was
in my 3rd year of uni I had some lesbian
friend who tried to tell me I was gay when
I knew for sure I wasnt, anyway she had
this othe friend who was really masculine
and she wanted to beat me up because jody
liked me and not her, it wasnt until mick
and I got together and she saw us out that
she confronted me and asked how long it
had been going on which was (3hrs) the
night she saw us was the night we got
together. Anyway I simply told her I
like her but I dont have feelings for her
in that way.
My advice to u is to tell her ur flattered
and all that but u dont have romantic
feelings for her, and r u sure that shes
bi and not just wanting to experiment.
From someone who cant wait to have a
jellybean all of their own.
