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Q: Huby Always Wants to Have Sex

asked by: Maxartz on June 11th, 2007

New User

I am 37 weeks and through out my hole pregnancy i've been blessed with a man who tells me how belle,sexy and attractive I am. But I don't feel that way. He always wants to have sex (make love). I just don't want to it doesnt mean that don't think he isn't attractive because he is a hunk and the man of every womens dreams. I hate to say it but i'm beginnig to hate sex more and more everytime i make myself do it.He says he gets it but i can see how emportant it is to him. some time he annoys me to the point when i just hate him but he bugs me so much because he doesn't want me to hate him. He is always in my face. he always wants attenTION like a child. I already stay at home with one home schooling her because she is too bad to go to school. well before I go on and on and on because i can do it all day. PLEASE WHAT DO I DO ABOUT THE SEX THING? HOW DO I KEEP FROM HATING IT. HOW DO I KEEP FROM GETTING SO MADE THAT I WANT TO GET AWAY FROM HIM JUST SO I FEEL BETTER? DON'T GET ME wrong I LOVE HIM BUT ahhhhhh HELP!!!!!! Mad

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babyAndy

replied on June 11th, 2007

Experienced User

I dont really have any answers for you but I know it is common during pregnancy. I have not wanted to make love with my dh either. I think maybe explaining to your husband that things change when you are carrying a baby, and not to worry in a few months things will change again.
My dh understands and doesnt really bug me about it. Also I get bad cramping afterwards and it scares me so I would prefer not to until after 3-4mths? That silly?

sqelton

replied on July 24th, 2009

New User

My husband takes drugs for his medical condition. The drugs contain levadopa and it has stepped up his already healthy sex drive. So, I am going through the same problem you are. Now it's come to point that I am starting to dread having sex. He works too hard for it to get me more interested and the harder he works at it the more I am turned on. I feel like a sexual object, like I am part of a sexual experiment. We've been married 19 years and he still acts like we did 19 years ago. Sometimes I get sore, sometimes I almost throw up. Sometimes I hate him yet I feel guilty because isn't this what marriage is about, that he can have sex with his wife at any time? I know men have their needs and I feel guilty I cannot give it to him as frequently as he wants it, so I just "service" him. However, today, I asked for a divorce. I can't live with it anymore. He is asking to give him a chance. I don't know what to do yet.

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