i'm so done with Trey's dad. I feel like
a fool. for 2 yrs he's treated me with no
respect and he kept saying he'd try and
change (try being the big word there) he
tells me he wants to be with me and wants
no one else with me but just now he says
"well I can't just fall in love with you
again" like what kind of mixed signals
are those? He tells me I'm a head case
cause I'm sitting here crying. He hasn't
given me 1 f-ing cent in almost 2 months,
he's not working right now and he can't
even bring Trey into daycare for me. I
have to leave my house at 6:50 to get to
work for 8:30 and if Mike brought him in
we could leave at 7.40. i just went and
left Trey there and I'm leaving for the
evening. I feel like a bad mom, but he
can take care of him for a while. I'm
done with all this bull.
edited because I should not be talking
stupidness.
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mc4ever02
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Joined: 08 Feb 2007 Posts: 3636 Location: Orlando, FL Usa
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Posted: 06-11-07 17:34pm
Those really are some mixed signals! I
would be very upset too if I were you. How
long have you guys been working on
things?
I'm sorry he's treating you this way. You
deserve to be treated so much better than
that. The least he could do is help out
some with his son. that would make a huge
difference in your morning. if He's not
working....then I don't see what the
problem is.
I think It would be good for you to get
away for a while. Maybe take a walk or go
to a movie. Something to get your mind off
things.
I'm always here if you want to pm me.
~big hug~
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HcoBrunette06
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Joined: 06 Dec 2005 Posts: 8006 Location: Missouri, United States
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Posted: 06-11-07 17:43pm
aw, jess im here for you if
you need anything! i think something must
be n the air making relationships go pooey
right now, we love you!
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Eyes Wide Shut
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Joined: 04 Jan 2006 Posts: 7892 Location: *UPTOWN*NEW ORLEANS*, La
Posted: 06-11-07 19:08pm
Jess, you know I'm always here if you need
to talk to me!! I know I haven't been on
much lately, but you know my e mail!!!
don't let this fool get you down like this.
I know it's *way* easier said than done,
but you are one of the *strongest* women I
know.
You helped me tons after I had .oni!! You
are an inspiring person!
Sarah
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Mommy35
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Joined: 23 Sep 2006 Posts: 3165 Location: Vacationland, USA,
Posted: 06-11-07 20:34pm
I don't know you very well, but you seem
to be a very supportive person. I'm
really sad that you are going through a
tough time. Some people (especially men)
say they will change and they want the
same things we want, but what they want is
to make us miserable and string us along
like puppets. You shouldn't feel like a
fool for loving someone. I guess that is
why they say love is blind.
You are better off without him!
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Bridget
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Posted: 06-11-07 20:57pm
jess, please do not harm yourself because
he upsets you. he is not worth it!!!
you're a strong, beautiful, talented young
woman and we love you!
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lil_blaze2004
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Posted: 06-11-07 21:13pm
thanks everyone, I don't think I would
ever cut again but tonight I got that urge
that I hadn't felt in yrs. My best friend
came and picked me up and we went yo the
rapids near here, then we took a walk in
the bird sanctuary around there for like
an hour. I feel better now, but as he was
here when I got back it didn't help. It's
so ridiculous he keeps bringing up the
fact that I was with someone else...last
october I keep saying, we
were brokemn up and not living together,
what?? whatever, I need to not see him
but that is hard with Trey and living so
damn close. I can't wait to move in 3
weeks.
Sarahm thanks for letting me know I'm a
"stuff" woman-lol what is up with the
censors?????
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Becky
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Posted: 06-12-07 01:52am
jess i'm going to pm you
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Willa Weintraub
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Posted: 06-12-07 10:21am
I'm sorry Jess.You tried right?You can say
you honestly tried everything to make your
family work but he is just not in it.I
love you and you can talk to me anytime
girl.Don't let him get you down.Your so
much better and stronger than him.
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sandyallen
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Joined: 02 Feb 2004 Posts: 4580
Posted: 06-12-07 17:05pm
I am so sorry .Jess! I was hoping things
would work out for the three of you! I
know you deserve better and I know how
difficult it is being the father of .Trey.
You are a great .Mom and I realize that it
is difficult being a single parent, not
getting much help but like ,Bridget said
you are a strong, beautiful. talented
young woman. I hope you don't hurt
yourself either because no man is worth
that! Know that we are all here for you!
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tigresacanela24
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Joined: 11 Nov 2005 Posts: 5261 Location: Treat your children well, eventually they'll choose your nursing home.
Posted: 06-13-07 09:08am
Jess! I don't know what to say except
that I'm sorry that he's such a jerk!!
I'm always here if you need me, just shoot
me an email or hit me up on yahoo.
im here for you if
you need anything! i think something must
be n the air making relationships go pooey
right now, we love you!
I keep saying, we
were brokemn up and not living together,
what?? whatever, I need to not see him
but that is hard with Trey and living so
damn close. I can't wait to move in 3
weeks.
