My Guy Friends Think My Guy Is Just Playing Wit Me ? Posted: 06-12-07 23:50pm
most of you have heard my story. Me and my
guy have been together 8mnths known each
other 2yrs. He had a kid at 19(she wanted
it he didnt) she kept it and he came back
home. He pays child support etc. Theought
our relationship its been one surprize
after another. The first one was it took
him 5mnths to tell me he had a kid and
that he didn't take a DNA test!
. I found old naked pics of his ex(his
babys mama) on his phone. Telling me he
didn't kno they had been there since he
transferd all his stuff to his phone a few
months ago. That the bar we go to the
bartender wants to hookup wit him even tho
I'm with him and she has a man. (I went
there and she put too much alcohol in one
of my drinks and I got heavily sick and
she was making bad faces at me while I was
vomiting lol)
I would have appreciated him warning me
about it lol. So I told my best guy friend
and he just tells me he's messing with me
and isn't serious. He doesn't make me
think he's cheating cause were always in
touch. But he keeps things from me and
when they pop up its so hurtful. I lose
trust in him. How do I kno he got rid of
those pics? Or that he messed around wit
the bartender before me?
From a male point of view what do you
think of a guy like this?
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Willa Weintraub
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Posted: 06-13-07 08:06am
I'm no guy but. . .
If he's untrustworthy,what do you have in
your relationship? That is one one the
*main* building blocks in a relationship
and if you don't have that then what is
there?Everything else is pretty weak
without it. Honestly, if I was in your
position i'd be looking in his phone.After
all you have a reason. Hiding things from
you is *just as bad* as lying about it.
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