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BabyP
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 20 Feb 2004
Posts: 360
Location: Maryland, Tennessee
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Help Plz R&r Asap!!
Posted: 03-01-04 08:02am
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Ok, I work and go to school, and as most
of you know, im preggo with my first baby
(jaylynn renee) I go to a school especily
for pregnant girls. Well one of my male
teachers is alwase feeling my belly im
used to that by now, everyone wants to
feel my belly, but thats not the problem,
the problem is, he alwase dose this to me
and not anyother girl; and it makes me
feel veary uncomfertable, what should I
do???? 
pamala &
jaylynn
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Mesmerizeu15
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Joined: 11 Aug 2003
Posts: 2728
Location: Pittsburgh,PA
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Posted: 03-01-04 08:09am
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Same thing happened to me, so I told my
teacher and I was never left alone with
him again. Except he also did this with
other girls. And they spoke up and he got
fired!
Dont let this go any further..
Say something to him or someone else!
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insurancegirl
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Joined: 25 Sep 2003
Posts: 5286
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Posted: 03-01-04 10:38am
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Last edited by insurancegirl on 10-08-04 14:12pm; edited 1 time in total
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KissyBai912
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Joined: 25 Aug 2003
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Location: Venice, Florida
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Posted: 03-01-04 12:22pm
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Well I go to a school where there are a
few pregnant girls, but I am the last one
due so I am the only pregnant one left
really! Lol. But I have a male teacher,
he is a really nice guy and he has like a
10 month old daughter so he likes pregnant
bellies. He has felt my baby kick b4 but
he has always asked me if it is ok first.
And we were never alone or anything. I
usually had a line of people waiting to
feel. Lol. But does this guy like rub
your stomach or just want to feel? Does
he rub too close to ahem....Certain
things??? Are you guys usually alone or
in class? It could be a perfectly
innocent gesture, but then again it could
be perfectly perverted also. I dunno.
You'll have to decide. Like I truly think
my teacher was just excited by seeing a
pregnant belly again. Good luck.
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Seana Analesa
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Joined: 14 Nov 2003
Posts: 83
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Posted: 03-01-04 12:25pm
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If your uncomfortable tell him! I am huge
and everyone tried to touch my belly and
it didn't bother me until about 2 months
ago. Now if anyone gets near me I make
sure they know that its not cool. But yes
2 of my male teachers used to rub my belly
all the time and hug me, not because they
are "into" me but because they are
interested and it just brings out the
family guy in them! I just prefer not to
be touched cause aiden freaks out and
kicks really hard where I double over in
pain, so yeah no one but me and kevin
cause touch me! Lol
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havingababy
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Joined: 28 Dec 2003
Posts: 127
Location: new jeruz (nj)
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Posted: 03-01-04 12:31pm
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Well I go to one of those schools too and
at mine we have like a case
worker/councler if u do have someone like
that tell him or her or tell ur principle
or tell nother teacher if u feel
uncomfortable u should really find a way
of making him stop.
Lana
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BabyP
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 20 Feb 2004
Posts: 360
Location: Maryland, Tennessee
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Thank U All
Posted: 03-03-04 07:52am
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Mesmerizeu15
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Joined: 11 Aug 2003
Posts: 2728
Location: Pittsburgh,PA
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Posted: 03-03-04 08:01am
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If he really wasnt doing it to please
himself then he should be fine with how
you feel and respect you. But for some
men pregnancy is a turn on, I wonder why??
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Jaydensmommy
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Posted: 03-03-04 10:33am
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I also think that maybe if you don't want
to tell him that it makes you feel
"invaded" or something that you could just
tell him..That you really don't like it
when people touch your belly anymore.
Maybe not direct it right at him and say
"i dont want you to touch my belly".
Just make it sound like people in general.
Good luck hun. I have never been
preggy in school and I think its soo wrong
for teachers to feel your tummy. I
understand it could just be innocent, but
most of us have been raised to never let
teachers and such to touch us. I
dunno..Maybe I am just weird.
~sara~
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Fire_dancer
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Mar 2004
Posts: 17
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Posted: 03-03-04 19:16pm
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Tell him firmly how you feel (probably
done that already) and say something to an
administrator right away, if they dont
listen to you get a hold of the police.
Not cool, harassing and assulting a
pregnant girl
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