Problem With My Best Friend Posted: 06-14-07 06:14am
Hi
i am 22 yrs old girl ,and lately i had a
problem with my best friend , and i asked
her not to talk with me forever , she
started saying no dont go to extrem with
it , we can not stop talking and .......
but i insisted to stop talking with her
the next day i went to talk with her, i
told her i am sorry for what i said i
wanna talk with you , she said okay but i
am not a game and it is not up to u , i
wont talk with u , and yea she means it ,
it is now 3 days we didnt talk , yesterday
she told me that we can talk but it can
never be like before , so i said okay , i
tried talking with her she was sooooo
weird , for example : i told her how was
ur day , she said good i told her what did
u do? she said stop asking questions ,
again i asked her a question about an
actor and she was like : I SAID STOP
ASKING ME QUESTIONS , I HATE QUESTIONS
she doesnt answer her fone , she doesnt
reply to msgs ,only when i see her she
talks and that's how she talks now , i
really dont like the way she is talking
with me now , i dont know what to do , i
dont wanna loose her
i hope i can find
help in here
thanx
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lil_blaze2004
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Posted: 06-14-07 13:06pm
what happened in the first place that you
did not want to talk to her? There has to
be more to this.
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John35235
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Jun 2007 Posts: 17 Location: france
Posted: 06-17-07 03:28am
Your friend felt betrayed by you.
I've got the same problem with my best
friend.
I was writing a paper for one of her
colleagues. When finished, that person
wasn't satisfied with the work, although
I've spent many nights and almost had no
sleep, for him to be satisfied.
He told my friend that it was only her
fault that I’m not a serious person and
stuff like that.
My best friend was very upset and stops
talking to me.
Later on, she realized that she was wrong,
and tried to talk to me.
But it wasn't the same.
Now we are like strangers because I know
that our friendship doesn't mean a great
deal to her.
So , to be more precise, I'm ignoring her,
and our friendship has ended.
Why? Because we were best friends and she
trough that away in one minute.
Please review your attitude...If you want
to save what's left of your friendship.
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Spirit
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Mar 2006 Posts: 387 Location: Canada
Posted: 06-20-07 06:00am
The friend did not "betray"
her..................didn't she first say
don't talk to me
forever?................Strong
words...............and strong words have
consequences.....................probably
why we should Think before we Speak,
especially when we are very
angry....................when
peeved..........walk away..........give
some thought to it.....
..........if someone said that to
me.................they'd get dead silence
in return......................not an
unforgiveable sin.................but they
Would have to make the first
move...........................and it'd
had better be good
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