Having Abortion Tomorrow

I don't think you should apologize to anyone for what you're doing. This is a very emotional time for you and you deserve to have people who support you at your side. I think the most important thing is making sure this is absolutely what you want to do, and it sounds like it is. Stray strong tomorrow, and be sure to seek out counseling afterwards if you think you need it.

Planned Parenthood is a good resource, by the way.

You don't have to justify your reasons for an abortion to anyone.

Abortion can be the right decision.

You will find more abortion horror stories online than good ones because people with good experiences move on, and don't turn into these fire spitting, demon possessed entities intent on making decisions for you.

You're making the right decision for yourself, and that is what matters.

Best wishes!

[removed - inapproriate comments as OP has stated is certain she wants an abortion]

if that's the choice you've made don't let anyone make you feel bad about it. I have been through it, if you need someone to talk to, PM me.

It's not selfish to choose to live you life the way you want, so just know that.

Thanks everyone for your comments, it actually really helps. JustD, I may take you up on your offer for pm, after its over maybe. Thanks.
rasuyoung and Birch THANKS! I know you are right, but it feels so much better hearing it from someone else you know?
And your right, people are probably moving on with their lives, not harping on it as others would who are focused on the actions of others. I was just thinking reasurance from ones with experience could help.
Froggy while I understand your point of view on prolife, adoption just is not an option for me. All I asked myself when I found out was could I go through the whole thing??? Even knowing I would be giving it up, I personally feel that I would be adding to a problem already too big. There are so many children who already need home, one that would have to wait, because I have a brand new one ready for taking. I dont like that idea at all. I am sorry. Even now, I dont like how I feel, I want this to be over.
Thanks all.

This is a long one, Sorry!
Thanks all. I actually had a very easy day Friday. The Dr was amazing, he talked to me the whole time (just about general stuff - school, family..) He told me when to expect something to hurt, but while it did hurt some, it was not the worse thing I have ever been through. I didnt cry like I thought I would. I knew it was the right choice and I still feel the same way.
So for anyone curious (I know I looked for this type of info beforehand):
(this is after I talked about choices/options)
Friday morning they gave me 1 valium (they offered more plus option of an IV - but I was going to drive myself so I declined. You can only have 1 if you are going to drive) They also gave me 2 pills to put in my cheek to make the proceedure easier (cervix softens). I went to waiting room, there were two other girls there for same, we opted to stay together - you can also wait alone. you have to wait about 90 mins for meds to work.
Took me to room and Dr came in quickly asked me if I was sure, told me what he was going to do, said I might want an IV again (I declined) He gave me 2 locals (shot) in the cervix area to numb. Then started. The whole thing was less than 10 mins. And like I said he talked to me very nicely. He was warm and warned me if he thought I would feel pain.
Over all very little pain.
After:
They put me in a big lazy-boy style chair with a heating pad while I waited for my new birth control (I chose Depo) and meds for after (to lessen bleeding and to avoid infection), gave me crackers and apple juice. I was ok then just a little sore like cramps. Todays Monday and I am still a little sore but nothing big and not interfering with the day. I only had 1 day of bleeding and stoped spotting on Sunday morning.
I know this was long I just thought I would tell my story in case anyone wants info.
Thanks for all of the nice comment and the links to other sites.

Thanks for keeping us updated.

How do you feel now? Physically, emotionally...

Glad to hear you had an okay experience. Hope you get to feeling well soon.

Hi all, thanks for the posts. As for how I am doing - I am fine, never had any real pain like I said, and as of now I am still not regretting my decision. It really was for the best and I know that. Thanks for the support.

Im glad everything went well Thank you for sharing your story. I know it will help other people.