I have been married to my husband for
almost 7 years, we have 2 children
together. In the past 6 months or so, he
hasn't been in the "mood" to make love
with me. Either hes to tired, cranky or
just not wanting to give it up. Sometimes
when he is asleep, I will lay in bed next
to him and start kissing on him, pull out
his penis and start giving him oral sex.
He enjoys that, but he doesnt give me
anything in return. The majority of the
time, he cums, and then he goes to bed. On
the nights that he doesn't cum, he just
rolls over and goes to bed. My problem is
that he doesn't "start" or continue the
foreplay with me or the sex. What can I do
to spice up my sex life!
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Tylanas
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Posted: 06-14-07 20:12pm
Well. first of all, tell him of your
concerns! Maybe he hasn't noticed this
lack of affection. It can happen; you get
into a rut, and things just fade off.
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froggystile79
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 14 Jun 2007 Posts: 4 Location: California
Posted: 06-14-07 22:12pm
He already knows that he hasnt been
putting out, it just seems like the
romance fire has been put our very
quickly. I have talked about it to him,
and I am just tired of constantly bringing
it up to him, maybe I should just wait it
out and stop trying for a bit
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LoveOperated
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 28 May 2007 Posts: 25
Posted: 06-14-07 22:22pm
froggystile79
wrote:
He already knows that he
hasnt been putting out, it just seems like
the romance fire has been put our very
quickly. I have talked about it to him,
and I am just tired of constantly bringing
it up to him, maybe I should just wait it
out and stop trying for a
bit
What I would do, I don't know if this
would work for you or not..
is just stop trying for a little bit, and
stop asking him, and stop giving
him Oral Sex. Wait for him to start
begging you!
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