How Old Is a Good Age Do You Think to Get Pragnent? Posted: 06-15-07 18:42pm
Hey, Iv been thinking alot about getting
pragnent and what not.
Im just wondering what a good ago you
think is good?
im not positive if im ready right yet, Me
and my boyfriend are moving into our own
house at the end of this month, and he
just perposed to me...
and i wanted to get into baby sitting just
to see if i could handle it right yet...
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HcoBrunette06
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Posted: 06-15-07 21:21pm
the age that you know how to spell the
word pregnant?
it's good that you're asking, but if
you're not ready then don't do it. some
people that are really young can handle it
and otehrs can't. how old are you?
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Dannzibelle
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Posted: 06-16-07 03:58am
Only you know when you are ready, some
people are capeable of raising a child at
16 and some people would be terrified of
having a baby before they're 30. it
tottaly depends on the person
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Mommy35
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Joined: 23 Sep 2006 Posts: 3165 Location: Vacationland, USA,
Posted: 06-16-07 06:48am
It depends on the person. Anyone who
likes to go out, party, spend lots of
money on themselves probably isn't ready
for the responsibiltiy of a child. Anyone
who likes to sleep in, come and go as they
please, and have "personal time" should
wait.
I think babysitting is a good start to
seeing if you can handle a baby. Just
keep in mind that it isn't the same. It
is a bit different doing it for a couple
of hours as opposed to doing it 24/7/365.
One of my friends daughters thought she
wanted a baby (she is 21). She took
another friend's colicy infant for the
night. Her maternal desire has been put
on hold.
I had a daughter at 18 and though .I love
her dearly, it was a challenge that though
a lot of women do it, not a lot do it
well. It's a lifelong committment and one
not to be taken lightly.
Good luck to you!
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LittleCaseysMommyJen
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Joined: 11 Jun 2007 Posts: 187 Location: Back in Texas.
Posted: 06-16-07 17:33pm
Persoanlly I don't think anyone is ever
really ready untill they are
holding their baby in their arms and
facing reality with that new life.
You can be prepared and as said before
only you know when you're fully prepared
to have that kind of responsiblity on your
shoulders. Not that it's a good thing
cause they are still children but their
are girls who are under the age of 18 (me
being on of them) who have had children
and done an excellent job and their are
some women who are 30+ who don't know what
the hell they are doing lol.
So it really all depends on you as a
person mentally, physically, and
spiritually.
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