I met a great great man last August. We met and fell quickly in love and I moved in with him about a week later. Seemed like a great idea. About 2 months later we moved into our own place- away from the roomates we had-and went to Las Vegas. It was a crazy week and needless to say, I got pregnant. We have not gotten along much for the last few months. I'm about to be 22, he is 23. He cannot budget money at all. He blows it on beer all of the time. He tries to get me to drink wine with him all the time. And I won't for obvious reasons. About a month ago, he got completely bombed (like always) and was slurring and being sloppy and I just started to pack my bags to leave. I honestly was going to leave. But I gave him another 2nd chance. So last wednesday he came home and said he was very tired, went right to bed. Then I tried to wake him up because there was someone on tv that I thought he knew, and he smelled like alcohol. I went out to his work truck and there was a bottle of bud ice sitting there not opened. That just showed me that he drank 5 out of the 6. Come to find out I was right. (Also, he has 2 previous DUI's, if he gets caught again, he goes to jail for 18 months, NO MATTER WHAT) So not only did he lie about drinking, he risked going to jail.....so i told him, no more drinking, i will go stay at my parents next time you drink. and of course, he begged me all day while i was running errands for my boss about drinking. we ended up getting in a huge fight b/c i said i was going to my parents. I came home and he wrote me a note giving me a guilt trip. So i broke up with him. But sadly to say, I don't have much money saved, our apartment, car insurance, cell phones, everything is all in both of our names. So it's not that easy to break up...i dont know what to do. he wont get help and hes gonna continue to get drunk al the time. i just want him to not drink but i dont think hes gonna change. but im so scared to be alone but i feel like theres no other option.
