so today was a really ruff day. I had a
suspicion that i was pregnant a couple
days ago because I missed my period. So
today I took a pregnancy test. It was
positive. I was going to wait until
fathers day to tell my boyfriend because I
thought that it would make him happier,
but I called his phone tonight and some
girl answered saying she was sleeping with
my boyfriend. I ask him about it and he
was drunk and said no but he was defending
her when I called her a nasty health
forum. He turned his phone off after one
of our mutual friends tried talking some
sense into him but he turned his phone
off. when he turns his phone on I am
going to break up with him, but I dont
know what to do about the baby. I know
that I'm young but I've been waiting for
this since I had my miscarriage months
ago. I just dont know wether to keep him
in my life 100% for the baby, if i do i
wont get over him but i dont want to cut
him out for our child sake. Please offer
me expecially if you are kindof in my type
of situation.
Sasbrena
p.s. the due date is feburary 18th 2008.
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LittleCaseysMommyJen
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Jun 2007 Posts: 187 Location: Back in Texas.
Posted: 06-16-07 17:15pm
Having a baby is NO excuse to keep a no
good man in your life. You can't force
them to stay either, thats his choice. I
have been in your shoes while I was
pregnant and my baby's father and I
planned our baby.
He does need to know if he dosen't already
and you guys need to be adults about the
situation. It's not just about you and
him anymore. Theres another life
involved.
Just know this forum is very helpful and I
have been coming on here since I was 16
and 2 months pregnant.
I am 18 now with a 1 yr. old baby boy and
sometimes I don't think I would have made
it as far as I have without the help from
everyone on this forum
We're all here to help with questions and
all.
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singlemommie
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 15 Jun 2007 Posts: 18 Location: greenwood
Posted: 06-17-07 14:19pm
of course i told him and we are being
adults about the whole situation, its
scarring me because i thought we were
going to raise the child together and now
we arent and i know it going to be hard.
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megan_camp
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Jul 2007 Posts: 1
Basically Alone Posted: 07-25-07 19:18pm
I met a great great man last August. We
met and fell quickly in love and I moved
in with him about a week later. Seemed
like a great idea. About 2 months later
we moved into our own place- away from the
roomates we had-and went to Las Vegas. It
was a crazy week and needless to say, I
got pregnant. We have not gotten along
much for the last few months. I'm about
to be 22, he is 23. He cannot budget
money at all. He blows it on beer all of
the time. He tries to get me to drink wine
with him all the time. And I won't for
obvious reasons. About a month ago, he
got completely bombed (like always) and
was slurring and being sloppy and I just
started to pack my bags to leave. I
honestly was going to leave. But I gave
him another 2nd chance. So last wednesday
he came home and said he was very tired,
went right to bed. Then I tried to wake
him up because there was someone on tv
that I thought he knew, and he smelled
like alcohol. I went out to his work
truck and there was a bottle of bud ice
sitting there not opened. That just
showed me that he drank 5 out of the 6.
Come to find out I was right. (Also, he
has 2 previous DUI's, if he gets caught
again, he goes to jail for 18 months, NO
MATTER WHAT) So not only did he lie about
drinking, he risked going to jail.....so i
told him, no more drinking, i will go stay
at my parents next time you drink. and of
course, he begged me all day while i was
running errands for my boss about
drinking. we ended up getting in a huge
fight b/c i said i was going to my
parents. I came home and he wrote me a
note giving me a guilt trip. So i broke
up with him. But sadly to say, I don't
have much money saved, our apartment, car
insurance, cell phones, everything is all
in both of our names. So it's not that
easy to break up...i dont know what to do.
he wont get help and hes gonna continue
to get drunk al the time. i just want him
to not drink but i dont think hes gonna
change. but im so scared to be alone but
i feel like theres no other option.
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