So I am in a very serious relationship
with my boyfriend, we have already started
planning out what we want to do in our
lives together. We plan on getting married
in just a year or so, and then are
considering children a few years after
that, given we have the money for it!
Thing is, my mom has been constantly
yelling at me to not even THINK about
getting married anytime soon ( im twenty
one right now, been with my boyfriend
since i was 19, plan on marrying in 1-3
years etc) and she really doesnt want me
to have kids until im like 35. Ok, thats
fine and dandy she thinks that way, but i
really love my guy, and Id really like to
have a child in the next 5 years or so.
Personally, I think it would be better for
me to have one at a younger age! Not to
mention my future mother in law(who is a
mother of only one child!) is DYING to
have grandchildren lol. Thing is... i feel
almost dirty for wanting to have a child
before my mom wants me to. Id still feel
like i was like a pregnant teen or
something
. I feel like she
wont be happy at all. I feel like she'll
be so disappointed in me.. but this is
what Im really hoping for! what should I
do? How should I confront her about this
when the time comes?
