Joined: 14 Dec 2003 Posts: 936 Location: Phoenix, AZ
Everyone Posted: 03-01-04 17:55pm
Everyone listen up, most of you are either
mothers or soon to be, talking about how
those of us who don’t have kids should
listen to you because you’ve been there,
or will be in a few..Blah blah. Like
because we don’t have our own we don’t
understand, I feel like it’s a huge battle
between those who have kids and those who
don’t aside from stacie. And you know
something its not cool at all. A lot of
the things said really offended chanda,
and to be honest she never asked for any
one person’s advice or approval did she?
Now a lot of you are jumping on her case
about waiting. Yes she knows josh isn’t
best for her at the moment, but she loves
him. If it came to the wire, and she
hypothetically did end up pregnant, which
she is not, and josh, hypothetically did
leave her, she would be mature enough to
do the parenting thing alone. Now I think
this is a dead issue, chanda has decided
to leave the boards for a while. So let
it die ok? You all said what you wanted
now leave it be.
Megan
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Darling
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Sep 2003 Posts: 875
Posted: 03-01-04 18:00pm
I don't think anyone was getting on
chanda's case just simply looking out for
her best interests...Then again what do I
know? Chanda is a lovely person and I
have no doubt she will do whats in her
best interests and I wish her the best of
luck no matter what she choooses to do! I
don't have a child I only went through a
pregnancy so I have no idea and I truly
admire all of you that are fortunate
enough to have children. I'll leave it at
that.
Love
tanya
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sparklypixie12
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Sep 2003 Posts: 3099
Posted: 03-01-04 18:07pm
this
is all my fault
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KissyBai912
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Aug 2003 Posts: 1762 Location: Venice, Florida
Posted: 03-01-04 18:10pm
No its not liz! We love u and know u were
just trying to be ur sweet self and
support the ones u care about!
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KariM18
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Jan 2004 Posts: 1436 Location: Grand Blanc, Michigan
Posted: 03-01-04 18:36pm
Idont get why all these seperate posts are
being made about one thing. .It started
out about chanda this time but its an
overall generalized topic. People are
going to give their advice wether people
agree, ask etc. If a 12 yr old came here
and said 'im trying to get pregnant'' im
sure people would speak on it and give
their opinions whether she asked or not.
this
is all my fault