My Gf is one of the most horniest people i
have ever met she wants to do it all the
time, but the only catch is i have to
iniciate the first move an sumtimes wen i
dont she falls out and we end up argueing
really bad, she told me the only reason
she gets all horny was because the first
time we had sex she said my penis was
gigantic and it hits her spot all the
time,thats why she gets so horny thinking
bout that sensation again,
But....... i feel like a sex toy thats
feeling dont count,im scared she mite be a
carrier of an sti aswell im such a mess.
please help
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Tylanas
Especially EHEALTHy
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Posted: 06-17-07 12:30pm
It does sound like your girl is only using
you for sex, and so I'd tell that to her
face. She's not respecting your feelings
or your needs. She doesn't sound like a
good person to be dating, to be honest.
Especially if you think she has an std she
hasn't told you about!
If you're in a situation you don't like,
just leave. Leave her, leave the
relationship. Break up. Don't force
yourself to do what you don't want to do.
She will find another boy to use as a sex
toy, I assure you. And you will find a
real girl who does care about you and your
feelings.
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Shady41
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 07 Jun 2007 Posts: 28 Location: midwest
Posted: 06-18-07 10:40am
So. . . what's the problem? All males wish
they had it so lucky. lol. Seriously,
maybe I'm not right, but the times I feel
best are times I have felt like a woman's
sex toy/sex slave.
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Llewellyn
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Jan 2007 Posts: 1743 Location: NY
Posted: 06-18-07 12:51pm
Shady41
wrote:
So. . . what's the problem?
All males wish they had it so lucky. lol.
Seriously, maybe I'm not right, but the
times I feel best are times I have felt
like a woman's sex toy/sex
slave.
Many men would agree with you, but not
all. Men people have the impression that
men are unemotional and only care about
sex, but that just isn't the case. Some
men are emotional and do want something
more than sex.
I suggest talking to her about it, barrib.
If things continue this way, it does not
sound like it would be a healthy
relationship for you. No one should ever
get angry at you for not having the same
sex drive that they do. People are
different and have different sex drives.
Nothing wrong with that. Like eiri said,
there are girls out there who would want a
real relationship with you just like there
are guys out there who would want just a
sexual relationship with her.