Joined: 14 Nov 2003 Posts: 12 Location: pennsauken
Pregnancy Posted: 03-02-04 11:18am
As most of you know my story about me
having a still birth misarriage on
september 9.2003. Not that I have been
trying to get pregnant but you know
everybody has there thoughts!!! Ever
since october me and my boyfriend have
been having sex without a condom and im
not drinking any pills i'm not getting
pregnant and i'm worried I would want to
have kids in the future! But i'm thinking
that something could be wrong with me???
im
worried and it has been 5 months having
sex without anyy protection and nothing!!
I really do need help and im thinking
about going to my gynecologist so that I
can get checked out and get some tests
done but i'm scared to think that I
wouldn't be able to have any kids
please help me if you know of any
experiences or anything that can help me
find out what's wrong with me please let
me know!!!!!!!!!
Your friend
truely
pregnancy is
hard
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allusivepond
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Oct 2003 Posts: 452
Posted: 03-02-04 14:27pm
Hey sweety, im glad ur back and I hope ur
doing better, ive never really
experienced wot u have so I cant really
offer any solid advice only that I think u
should wait, it maybe the stress of
conceiving that is preventing u from
getting pregnant and not any medical
problems, if u are really that concerned I
would seek medical advice even if its to
put ur fears at rest. I am in a similiar
situation I was told many years ago I
might not be able to have kids or that I
would at least have trouble conceivin and
im only on to month #2 but already im
having fears and they wont look at doing
any tests until about year of trying, till
then I have to wait it out I guess.
The decision is urs and remember ur body
went thru a huge ordeal so it might take a
while to fully recover.
From someone who cant wait to have a
jellybean all of their own
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sparkletots
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Oct 2003 Posts: 36 Location: Washington
Posted: 03-03-04 21:23pm
I totally know how you feel. It took my
husband and I three years to conceive.
There were so many times that I worried
that I would never be able to have
children, it upset me so much it was all I
could think about.
I didn't go to the doctor for any test
because in the back of my mind I had hope
even though at that point it wasn't much.
I finally gave up and came to the
conclusion that I must be infertile and
had accepted that and gave up on trying.
I literally got pregnant the same month
that I accepted that I would never
conceive. We weren't even trying anymore.
I know it's hard, scary and confusing
but I truly believe you need to focus on
another aspect of your life for a while
and make that your main focus and it will
probably happen when you least expect it.
Hang in there it's just around the
corner.... Give it some time and little
to no thought. I wish you the best.
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im
worried and it has been 5 months having
sex without anyy protection and nothing!!
I really do need help and im thinking
about going to my gynecologist so that I
can get checked out and get some tests
done but i'm scared to think that I
wouldn't be able to have any kids
