Cutting Down On Masturbation to Help Sex Drive? Posted: 06-19-07 20:18pm
Okay, well, I'm not gonna lie, I
masturbate pretty frequently. Or atleast,
I used to.
In the past week, I've cut down on
masturbation so much, that the only time I
might do it is before bed. Well, anyway,
the cutting down has made the actual
orgasm and act of masturbation better and
more-fullfilling.
Now, the reason I've sort of been cutting
down on the masturbation is because when
me and my girlfriend have tried to have
sex in the past, I could not get my penis
erect enough to penetrate her vagina, and
thus, I am left with a half-erect,
condom-covered penis, and a horrible
feeling that I've let down my girlfriend.
Well, chances are that last time we
attempted, I was soo focused on getting it
up, that I just made the problem worse.
Well, anyway, my dilemna is precisely
that. Will cutting of my "masurbatory
tendancies" help me get it up when I am
with my girlfriend? Honestly, it feels
like it just might, as I'll just be
craving the sexual pleasure even more when
we are in the act.
But I'm just curious on what other people
might say. Anybody have a problem like
this? Also, the two times me and my
girlfriend attempted to have sex, we were
both somewhat drunk, and some of my
friends have said that may have been the
problem.
Honestly, I'm going to see my girlfriend
tomorrow (without being drunk) and there's
a chance that we might go for it again, so
I just want any advice possible, if
any....
Thanks...
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Tylanas
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Posted: 06-19-07 20:22pm
Yes, being drunk can cause erectile
dysfunction for the night. That's probably
more your problem than anything else.
Not masturbating can also build up sexual
frustration that makes your body more
eager to get it out and that desire may
overcome your mental fears of failure.
masturbating once before bed isn't a bad
amount anyway.
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Llewellyn
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Joined: 21 Jan 2007 Posts: 1743 Location: NY
Posted: 06-19-07 20:33pm
It does not at all sound like masturbation
is the issue. It sounds like being drunk,
worrying about it, maybe being nervous,
etc is the root of your problem. What you
described is a common problem, and it's
usually just due to stress, worrying, and
being nervous. The more you think about
it, the more of a problem it will be.
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crock_os
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Joined: 16 Jun 2007 Posts: 12
Posted: 06-19-07 20:42pm
yeah, I mean, that's what I've mostly
figured by now...
I mean, I just figured that being
incredibly horny by next time that we
start to fool around couldn't exactly hurt
my cause, you know?
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Tylanas
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Posted: 06-19-07 21:02pm
crock_os
wrote:
yeah, I mean, that's what
I've mostly figured by now...
I mean, I just figured that being
incredibly horny by next time that we
start to fool around couldn't exactly hurt
my cause, you
know?
