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Why Did I Not Say Anything ???

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freetoBme

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Why Did I Not Say Anything ??? Posted: 06-19-07 21:44pm


I am in the process of coming to terms with the abuse I went through when my husband and I were together. I keep wondering why I was afraid to talk about it with people I really trust like my mom and my doctor. I also am starting to remember incidents that happened between my husband and I. It is like I pushed them to the back of my mind. Why did this happen???? I also am getting this feeling that I am still supressing something and that it is not good at all but I just don't know what. Is this normal????

Spirit

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Joined: 12 Mar 2006
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Posted: 06-20-07 05:50am


Probably perfectly normal.............why you didn't talk about it?your a private person?you like to handle things yourself?you were embarrassed?ashamed?feeling like a failure?.................only you can answer that...........and lots of time to reflect will probably bring about an answer................most humans "push them to the back of the mind" or suppress memories as a sort of survival technique..................to keep them from going mad..............."system overload" if you will..................now that your ready to talk and gain support..............you can bring it out at your own pace...............slowly and gently

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