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*Ashley*

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Who is the baby's father ?
Posted: 06-21-07 14:40pm

Hey u guys i need help.
I had sex with my friend on april 10,07. My period came april 11,07. We used no condoms. My other friend i started to just mess around with on april 25,07. I went to the doctor on June 4,07 and they told me that i was 7 weeks pregnant. The guy that i just started to mess around with was only around me for 5 1/2 weeks. I was messing with the first guy 7 1/2 weeks ago but i got my period. Could i have gotten pregnant and got my period the next day? Bye the way my ovulation day was the same day i started messing with the 2nd guy. Do you know who baby it is? HELP Crying
or Very sad
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mamaTT

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Posted: 06-21-07 14:55pm

It sounds to me like it's the second guys. They count pregnancy from the first day of your last period, so technically you are 2 weeks pregnant before you even conceive.
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sWeEtPeEwEe

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Posted: 06-21-07 14:57pm

it is very possible that you could have gotten your period the next day even if you have conceived the day before, because the truth is that it takes a couple of days for the egg to be fertilized; did you nitice anything different with that period? it seems like it could be either one's baby... however the way they go about determining how far along you are is by your last period date... but that is hard to say whos it is unless you have a sonogram and they can tell you maybe more acurately the day that u conceived.
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caribbean5

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Posted: 07-19-07 09:30am

It seems to me it could be the 2nd guy's baby. However, was your period normal or was it light. If it was light then it might have been spotting from implantation. Usually most women ovulate 2 weeks prior to their menses and about 2 weeks after the menses. Good luck
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caribbean5

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Hey Guys I Need Help As Well
Posted: 07-19-07 09:38am

I'm in a similar situation. I got my period March 24-28. I'm usually regular every 29 days. I had intercourse with a friend March 29 with protection but the friend said the condom burst. I don't know what to believe. My bf and I had separated for awhile. Then my bf returned in my life and we had intercourse April 1 and 3 no condoms and he ejaculated in me April 3. I would have ovulated April 5 or 7 based on my regularity and the doc says conception was April 7 or 8. Nothing definite which why I'm confused. I'm due the end of Dec this yr. I found out that I was 4 weeks pregnant April 24. Who is likely to be the father?
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sWeEtPeEwEe

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Re: Hey Guys I Need Help As Well
Posted: 07-19-07 10:16am

caribbean5 wrote:
I'm in a similar situation. I got my period March 24-28. I'm usually regular every 29 days. I had intercourse with a friend March 29 with protection but the friend said the condom burst. I don't know what to believe. My bf and I had separated for awhile. Then my bf returned in my life and we had intercourse April 1 and 3 no condoms and he ejaculated in me April 3. I would have ovulated April 5 or 7 based on my regularity and the doc says conception was April 7 or 8. Nothing definite which why I'm confused. I'm due the end of Dec this yr. I found out that I was 4 weeks pregnant April 24. Who is likely to be the father?


i think that it would be your boyfriend's baby but you cant be 100% shure but most likely thats who id say it was.
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caribbean5

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Posted: 07-19-07 10:34am

I guess likely is more like it for my ex bf. I'm 16 weeks pregnant now and I haven't had much morning sickness or anything and for that I'm grateful. My bf and I broke up April 3 and he is with a female who has 3 children. It was his strange ways which lead me to believe that he wasn't sure what he wanted in life. So I am taking care of myself and the baby and wish not to speak to him unless he is serious. If i see the other guy I say hi but I wish to have no contact with him either. This is the time for me and my baby. The trust is out for me and my ex bf especially since he harrassed me prior to me being pregnant and after. The last time he called was Fri but i wasn't at home and he stopped calling my cell. I really don't need any stress. I am currently working on my MBA in Finance and I'm the assistant director of a financial services company so I'll be just fine. The less stress the better. Thanks for the insight sWeEtPeEwEe. Blessings to everyone.
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