There is something that has been worrying
me since past 1 year. I used to masterbate
about twice a day at the max (now once a
day). But with masterbation I dont get
full erection (I know what my full
erection is ... I reached if few times)
& cant maintain the erection unless I
keep pumping it.
If I dont masterbate for a month or so
(which I have done many times) I get a
full erection & it does not require
pumping to maintain it.
My question is that is it normal with
masterbation on regular basis (daily) that
one does not get full & maintainable
erection or is it just me? Would i be able
to get full erection with the stimulation
from a partner (new touch/sensation)?
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Tylanas
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Posted: 06-21-07 16:58pm
Most men (and women) masturbate to relive
stress and get a nice orgasm. If you are
turned on by someone else, trust me, your
penis will more than likely get as hard as
you need it! Masturbation and actual sex
are very different, and your body knows
this. Your body is kind of like "ah, meh,
it's just my owner." When a sexy lady
enters your life, it's going to go "Whoah!
Sexy lady, alright!"
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the_thing
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Joined: 21 Jun 2007 Posts: 4
Posted: 06-21-07 17:11pm
Eiri
wrote:
Most men (and women)
masturbate to relive stress and get a nice
orgasm. If you are turned on by someone
else, trust me, your penis will more than
likely get as hard as you need it!
Masturbation and actual sex are very
different, and your body knows this. Your
body is kind of like "ah, meh, it's just
my owner." When a sexy lady enters your
life, it's going to go "Whoah! Sexy lady,
alright!"
hmm ... I have tried it while watching
porn. Lot of sexy ladies there (but the
hand remains mine).
Plus I dont usually get erection while
thinking about something sexy/sexual all
the time. When I stop masterbating for a
week or 2, I start getting erection when I
think of something. I do get erection when
I am not paying attention to my penis
(meaning not giving it deliberate
erection) but paying attention to porn,
sexy lady & when my mind drifts of to
sexual thoughts on its own (it happens).
I just wana knw if I am putting too much
stress on my penis & my brain.
& above all ... is this thing NORMAL?
There is nothing to worry about is there?
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Tylanas
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Posted: 06-21-07 18:07pm
Above all, I do think it is normal, and I
do think that of course waiting two weeks
is going to make you really horny. But
you're not stressing your body or mind
with daily masturbation.
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the_thing
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Joined: 21 Jun 2007 Posts: 4
Posted: 06-21-07 18:32pm
Eiri
wrote:
Above all, I do think it is
normal, and I do think that of course
waiting two weeks is going to make you
really horny. But you're not stressing
your body or mind with daily
masturbation.
Well thats a lil relief ... but I have few
more questions left:
1. Will it be different when I have a sex
with partner (girl)? I mean would I get
erection cause of a new touch/sensation?
2. Should I cut down on masterbation from
once or twice a day to few times a week?
The worse thing is I am loosing my
confidence & I have to regain it. I am
not that old, just 25.
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Tylanas
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Posted: 06-21-07 18:35pm
Like I already told you, yes, it will be
totally different when you are with a real
girl. The frequency of masturbation is up
to you.
If you prefer to masturbate twice a day
and don't mind that you are softer, then
do it. You won't be soft during sex. If
you like to wait until you're horny and
have it hard for masturbation, then do
that. It won't make a difference to sex.
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the_thing
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Joined: 21 Jun 2007 Posts: 4
Posted: 06-21-07 19:00pm
Eiri
wrote:
Like I already told you,
yes, it will be totally different when you
are with a real girl. The frequency of
masturbation is up to you.
If you prefer to masturbate twice a day
and don't mind that you are softer, then
do it. You won't be soft during sex. If
you like to wait until you're horny and
have it hard for masturbation, then do
that. It won't make a difference to
sex.
Well thanks ! That puts off some tension
& burden.
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younglad
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Posted: 07-04-07 17:40pm
hi. i av never had a full erection, but am
getting it treated. i used to when i was
14 masterbate about 3 or 4 times a day.
then from 16 i started to 2 or 3 times a
day. now i av done it 1 to 3 times a day,
and i usually do it for the hell of it,
out of boredom. note, i av never had an
erection, i usally tense my penis,,and my
dr said my right testicle is extremely, i
mean extremely small, and underdevelope
that it may not be producing sperm. i used
to orgasm and explode. but for like the
past 2 yrs i just dribble!!! is this
because I LACK A PROPER
ERECTION???????????? i am getting pills
next week that the dr said for me to try.
also, i cannot orgasm much, i like tried
once, and i cummed 3 times in 1 hr, but
that was hard work! but also, note i did
it whilst not having a FULL PROPER
ERECTION. well i av never had one!! but
nxt week, if the pills work, and also help
me physically as well as mentally (dr said
i cld release a lot of mental stress
too,,and may not av to rely on them as
much, but there is a physical problem as i
av never had an erection, even in the
mornings!!!!), and i get an erection! WILL
I BE ABLE TO ORGASM MORE EXPLOSIVLY?? AND
MORE OFTEN??????
pleasE???
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Tylanas
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Posted: 07-05-07 12:23pm
I have no idea. Hopefully the medicine
will help you; but I don't know what kind
of medicine you're taking so I can't eve
begin to help.
