What Is Happening to Me ? Posted: 06-21-07 23:48pm
everytime I have sex with my husband its
painful for me and even worse his penis
will start to bleed on the outside. It
scabs up and is really painful for him and
then i feel like i swell up. How is it
this just started happening a few weeks
ago. What in the world is wrong with me?
Is this normal? Should i be concerned?
Its awful and I love to make love to my
husband and now feel like even thats been
taken away from me. This is so
frustrating! Is it going to go away ?
what is this?
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Azure777
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Posted: 06-22-07 02:41am
that DOES NOT sound good... i would
suggest stopping having sex for now till
you both go to the doctor and get checked
out (him more than you)... so go... get
checked out... ask LOTS of questions!
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Jolie_3110
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Joined: 04 Dec 2005 Posts: 1755 Location: Essex, England
Posted: 06-22-07 03:00am
That doesnt sound right to me either esp,
if your hubby is bleeding and 'scabbing'
up. I would go get checked out together,
try not to worry it is probably something
thats easily sorted. Good luck hun!
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Lauren_Jay15
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Posted: 06-22-07 06:02am
Have you been tested for Group B Strep?
I was tested for it a few weeks ago 'cos I
had some weird discharge, baby was fine,
etc'. It came back negative and turns out
I had a yeast infection aswell as a
barfolomu cyst or however you spell them.
All common in pregnancy.
If I were you, I'd go to the doctors,
explain to them everything that is going
on and demand they help you as you are
worried if you do have an infection that
it will cross to your cervix. Which
naturally could put you in labour then as
your baby comes down the birth canal any
infection that is there may be passed over
to babba.
They should help you hun, you'll be fine.
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Dannzibelle
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Posted: 06-22-07 06:34am
Whenever me and Dom try to have sex i'm in
a lot of pain, it could just be one of
those things. As for the penis thing he
really should get that checked out
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kaerbear
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Joined: 10 Apr 2007 Posts: 1557 Location: ,
Posted: 06-22-07 06:45am
i was reading a little bit about this
after i read your post and apparently a
yeast infection, if it is bad enough, can
do that to your husband's penis. of
course it could be any number of other
things but it isn't neccessarily an std or
anything. if it is a yeast infection you
would have to stop having sex until it
clears up and it's important to treat it
before having a baby because the baby can
get thrush from it. hope that helps.
probably should just get it checked right
away.
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onmyway_0x
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Joined: 12 Jan 2007 Posts: 759 Location: Canada
Posted: 06-22-07 07:58am
oh hun that must be terrible,
especially with you not feeling so hot
lately
It could be anything from the friction
(say you guys arent having sex a lot and
then all of a sudden going at it ... dry
irritated skin can become even worse!)
It could be easily sorted... but I say go
to the doctor's, like everyone said it
will probably be easily dealt with ... but
it's better to be safe then sorry.
Right now I have a killer infection, it's
gross, but it's being treated and
*hopefully* clears up before the babe
comes..
get it looked at soon, you dont wanna be a
week away super treating trying to get it
to go away!!!
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vanessalouanne
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Posted: 06-22-07 07:59am
thanks! Im thinking a yeast infection
sounds about right..
Neither of us have a std.. and ive already
been tested for group b strep and its
negative.. I had a yeast infection (ive
only had 2 in my entire life) a few weeks
ago but i thought it cleared up. and he
since hes in the military he gets tested
for stds and all that all the time not to
mention he hasnt been with anyone but me
in over 2 years and with the pregnancy i
get tested all the time. its just so
frustrating because with the baby coming
in 3 weeks i know we wont be sleeping with
him for a long time and its just sucks
lol. i'll have to call my doctor but i
really dont like to call them because
everytime i call with a concern they
dismiss is as me being stupid so it really
feels like there is no point. its really
weird though i feel like ive become much
tighter almost like a virgin again or
something.
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Assena
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Joined: 12 Nov 2004 Posts: 328 Location: Georgia
Posted: 06-22-07 08:10am
you could have passed your yeast infection
on to him. Either way he definatly needs
to get it checked out. And if your didn't
clear up you may need to go in and make
sure the treatment worked or if there are
any alternatives.
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vanessalouanne
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Posted: 06-22-07 08:22am
hmm.. yeah it always clears up on him
after a few days of not having sex.. im
going to have to call and try to get pills
to take or something because this sucks
dry
irritated skin can become even worse!)
