okay so here goes it one more time about
my fiance's ex wife and all so wednesday
we had two cops show up at our apartment
with a restraining order for my fiance not
to be allowed to see his daughter. Anyways
I am stuck in a situation and I am so
stressed because it says he was abusing
his daughter which would never happen
because I am always home! and also I am
having a baby for goodness sake! So now
they are looking into that and I am so
afraid that they will take my baby away
because of some woman trying to ruin my
life! ugggh I cant stand her because she
lied to the cop and said he was abusive
and that he burnt his daughter sorry for
the rant I am just so upset right now I
feel like beating her up.... but that is
not how I am because I am not at her
level. I am better than that and thats all
I have to say. Has anyone else been
through something like this before?
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Mommy35
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Sep 2006 Posts: 3165 Location: Vacationland, USA,
Posted: 06-24-07 18:36pm
I have not been through such a thing, and
.I'm really sorry that you are. If your
fiance didn't hurt his daughter they will
find out one day and the ex wife will be
in trouble for lying. It really doesn't
change today though.
I know where .I live you will be urged to
leave him and not allow him to be around
your child unless he's supervised. If you
choose to stay with him they may very well
take your baby, because in the laws eyes
you are putting your child at risk for
abuse.
If he's found to be innocent you will be
all set and more than likely you will end
up with your step child too.
Good luck
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confused_girl
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 28 Mar 2005 Posts: 102 Location: vermont
Posted: 06-24-07 20:16pm
Thanks mommy35 I am just so afraid at
court on wednesday she will make up
another big story and make him loose
everything he works all the time and
everything like that so how can he be like
that if hes never home during the week
she
makes me so heated. She came into my place
of employment and told another associate
that he was a loser and unfit when
everyone there knows my fiance and said
that all this stuff she has said and done
is b...s... and they know how he is to his
daughter and I and we have gotten her
everything she has wanted for her birthday
and everything else so its like proof
right there he cares way to much
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Mommy35
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Sep 2006 Posts: 3165 Location: Vacationland, USA,
Posted: 06-24-07 20:21pm
Unfortunately there are a lot of women out
there that make up lies about their
children's fathers. I guess they think it
makes themselves look good, and .I'm sure
they get attention for it too. It takes
someone with really low class to do that.
I hope all goes well for you guys.
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vanessalouanne
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Posted: 06-25-07 00:21am
he can make up all the lies she wants but
in the end she needs proof. if she does
not have it then they will drop the
charges.. he says she says isnt enough to
press charges. it sounds like it is a
temporary restraining order.. if what she
says is untrue then it will come out in
the open. dont stress too much..or try
not to.
she
makes me so heated. She came into my place
of employment and told another associate
that he was a loser and unfit when
everyone there knows my fiance and said
that all this stuff she has said and done
is b...s... and they know how he is to his
daughter and I and we have gotten her
everything she has wanted for her birthday
and everything else so its like proof
right there he cares way to much