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HcoBrunette06

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Posted: 06-24-07 23:04pm

this is kind of silly, but i have a question about what you guys think i should do.

(this was when all of that mumbo jumbo was going on with tommy and me)

one day i didn't talk to tommy all day, around 10pm i started getting worried and i called his sister. i asked her to call him and see if he picked up his phone and call me back. so she agreed and fifteen minues later she calls me back. i figured he answered since it took her so long to call me back, but she said that he didn't saying "well maybe hes just busy with homework or something" Rolling Eyes

so about 10 minutes later tommy pops up and says "sorry, i figured joan told you that i wasn't in the mood to talk"

(this is all over with tommy and i and we're doing absolutely great, we've talked about everything and we're doing wonderful)

but it really hurts me that she lied to me. i don't know which to think, either

a) she didn't want to hurt my feelings.
b) she didn't want to get in the middle.
c) she wanted to hide what her brother was doing so that i wouldn't be mad at him.


i don't know which to think, but i'm really hurt that she lied. she went on vcation for two weeks and got back tonight and i really want to talk to her, but i can't help but have rude feelings twords her because she simply lied, and i want her to know that i know.

should i say something to her? i wouldn't be rude about it... but I want to be like "tommy told me that he answered the phone the other night, but things are better. did you just not want to get in the middle of our fight?"

i dont plan on starting family drama, im not going to do that, i guess i just want an answer lol i know this sounds silly, but my feelings are just hurt. i don't like being lied to. :/
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rasuyoung

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Posted: 06-24-07 23:14pm

I wouldn't worry about it, .Ter. It sounds like she might not have known what .Tommy would want her to say, so she said something that didn't have the potential to stir any more problems up between you and him. I don't think she was blatantly trying to lie to you. Think about it: would you want to tell your brother's girlfriend that he wasn't in the mood to talk to her? I would feel uncomfortable being put in that position.
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HcoBrunette06

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Posted: 06-24-07 23:23pm

oi, that makes perfect sense and i sound like a complete brat right now lol
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kaerbear

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Posted: 06-24-07 23:27pm

it's not her place to get involved in your relationship and it sounds like she knows that. she didn't call you up so she could lie to you, she probably just didn't know what to say because he told her he didn't want to talk. maybe she just didn't feel comfortable telling you no he doesn't want to talk to you right now. if you confront her on it she might just tell you "well next time deal with it on your own".
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HcoBrunette06

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Posted: 06-25-07 10:19am

lol ouch, yeah you're right. we talked a tiny bit last night and she was just as nice as ever and so was i. i wasn't planning on starting drama with her, my feelings were just a little hurt, but now i understand completely why she told me no.
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