Introductions Forum

nvrgv^ wrote:

Preferred name (optional): My name is Maleyah, but everyone calls me Babigurl
age: I'm 14
are you ttc: No!
if so - how long: n/a
are you pregnant: No
if so how far: n/a
do you have children: Yes
if so how old - boys/girls: McKayla Lori, 8 mnths
are you married/with baby dady: Nah. He bolted a long time ago
pets: a cat named Maliek
about you: I'm the eighth child of ten. I have 4 nieces and two nephews. I was twelve when I lsot my virginity to have a baby. I didn't concieve until I was thirteen. I had the baby just after I turned fourteen. My daughter McKayla is everything to me. My life pretty much sucks, and so if she werne't in it, I would not make it through a single day without her cute smile. When I todl my ex Kyle that I was pregnant, he bolted and I haven't sene him until a few days ago when he came by with his mother for McKayla. Only my sister Alison and my parents are the only people are acceptive of me since I got pregnant. I'm a devoted mother, though I might not always make that impression, depending on the moment or day.

I don't know if you guys remember me, but I haven't been on for awhile. I turned fifteen, and then my mom kicked me out of her house after she found out I was living with an eating disorder. She threatened to take away McKayla and I fought to keep my life with me. Which, to the judge- meant going to a rehab center for eating disorders. I was there for two months, and met my boyfriend Chris there. After being released on outpatient, I fought with my mom some more until we came to an agreement in the court. I could keep Maleyah as long as I stayed in school and didn't get a record of any kind.

However, there was still the dispute with my ex-boyfriend Kyle about McKayla. His mom tried to sue me for money she gave me a long time ago to help me get some stuff for the baby. Eventually, I was forced into joint custody with him. Lucky for me, Chris talked him into sobering up. I'm not exactly sure if it's the real deal, but I'm learning to give him benefit of the doubt.

Since July, I've been in a whirlpool of madness and can honestly say that I feel lucky. I've been staying with my boyfriend Chris and his older brother. I have McKayla for one week, every other week and I'm learning to accept everything life has to offer.

The biggest news i guess is that Chris and I have just found out that I'm pregnant. While it consulted a problem with me at first, Chris has expressed himself and the fact that he wants this child. I'm one month along, and I'm loving every minute of it. I'm getting ready to graduate from school, as well. I think that's all for now. I'll be posting later on, I suppose.

-"BabiGurl"