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Ashley9110

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i am sad !!!!
Posted: 06-26-07 03:42am

i am sad about something but i dont know what. i keep thinking over and over about things that have already happened and i cant do anything about them. i have never tryed to talk about my problems cause i figure they dont matter. i really cant talk about my problems. i just want a way to deal with them without any body knowing about them and so i dont have to talk about them. are you going to help??
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Posted: 06-29-07 02:29am

Think that nthin matters..n be open..try to say abt u to sum1...sum1 u trust...
U hav frnds rite?
talk to them abt U...
If U feel free to talk with me..then pls do it...I wish to know abt U...dont keep Ur probs inside ur mind..it simply makes the situation worse...
I too have a lot of probs....My frnds....recently asked me abt tht...Aftr 5 or 6 yrs..I became open..I talked to my best frnd abt me....But unfortunatel due to some probs I happened to leave my skool.i.e I parted frm my Best frnd...I felt sad but am okay..I feel that there's sum 1 who know abt me in this world....So just be open to sum1...Try to say abt U...
Trust me...I was also sum1 like U....just 2 or 3 days before...Now am a bit happy...Smile....
BUT FRND...its u hu hav to take decisions....I just guided U thts all...
How old r U..am a small gal...I dunno abt U..bt still hope U hear me...
Try to talk with sum one..abt U..
If U dun wish to talk to sum1 U knw that U feel that U may get betrayed..Then try to talk with me....or sum1 U feel that confident to talk with....
THAT S THE ONLY WAY TO GET RID OF SADNESS...
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Color of Paper

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Posted: 06-29-07 10:13am

Hi there Ashley. You did the first part by reaching out on these forums, so keep your head up. So many times when we are sad something is making us sad....like bad grades, fighting with our parrents or relationships. One of the first parts of finding out how you feel is take a step back and look at the obvious....are your feeling physicaly good etc. Dont stress about it 2 much, but for now we cant say too much because we dont know more details....feel free to spill your guts here, everyones very welcoming and this is a very safe place to talk.

So welcome and keep your head up. ^_^
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Posted: 07-01-07 00:50am

make a blog.... tell all the problems u want/ get a fake online identity... who cares.... and put it out there... or just simply talk to yourself write them down on a peice of paper everytime they fill up your brain

and smoke sum mj n avoid other hard drugs... that should really help according to my personal experiment... also get involved in reading....

get a book called "today matters" by John C maxwell... overall it is a very useful and hintful book

have aplan for your life and future
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Hello, Ashley
Posted: 07-05-07 19:16pm

Ashley9110 wrote:
i am sad about something but i dont know what. i keep thinking over and over about things that have already happened and i cant do anything about them. i have never tryed to talk about my problems cause i figure they dont matter. i really cant talk about my problems. i just want a way to deal with them without any body knowing about them and so i dont have to talk about them. are you going to help??


Hi, Ashley.
I kind o' second what imaginary, Color of Paper, and randomguy1 say.

A big problem is if there is no one you feel comfortable talking to, about what you are facing. So it's good you've given us a try. I'm sure the problems matter, even without knowing exactly what they are.

In another forum, and using a different name, I can say a lot more than I can say where people know who I really am. So I say a little bit, and wait for the criticism and condemnation Sad . Know what? It never comes Surprised . I get, you know, friendly Smile comments. People seem to understand. That is such a relief sometimes, just to have someone say "I understand" or "Calm down." It helps me a lot.

I think as you read what folks have to say to you about what you said your problem is, you'll feel better, too, just knowing we are listening to you. Even if we don't have the Ultimate Best Solution, we can help you carry some of the weight of the problem.

You are not alone.
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