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jo_1982
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Joined: 26 Jun 2007
Posts: 33
Location: surrey
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I Feel So Depressed
Posted: 06-26-07 18:24pm
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I feel so depressed i dont wanna live
anymore my life is going no where i have
lost everything my family pushed and
pushed until my mother could take no more
from them when i was 16 she packed her
bags and left with my sister leaving me
and my brother to it it took us a long
time to deal with that i got my life back
together kind of 2 and a half years ago
find a nice guy settled with him then
after 2 and a half yrs together he just
ups and leaves without a word due to
stress from my family once again they have
f** my life up for me and they dont even
care i am heart broken and feel as low as
i can get i dont wanna live anymore as i
dont see the point to go on now they have
made my life hell and took all they could
from me they dont wanna no i'm a real mess
and my gp aint much help
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young Girl
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Joined: 21 Jun 2007
Posts: 13932
Location: everythings better in, texas USA
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randomguy1
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Posts: 17
Location: US
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Posted: 07-01-07 00:46am
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be strong and self-dependent.... millions
have had bad families.... not everyone
commits suicide but the weak... u should
give yourself positive messages.... come
on
dont look for your luv unless u have
gained your self-esteem then your family
cant affect anything
avoid hard drugs at all times they are of
no long term help
get yourself together and make a plan for
your life.... what u wanna be... your
family will be gone at some point in your
life... so their effects on you should'nt
stay at all... try to be independent thats
the only way
find good friends/avoid drugies - real
good friends are not easy to find... so be
positive and try to be yourself with high
confidence and hopefully u'll find some
friends....
haha funny thing is that i've had more
than 100 friends in 4 years of being in
states.... now i have 0
u know why? they only looked cool but were
really not! and im way happier now than i
was with them despite what i was thinking
in the past 4 years!
at last a person is born alone and will
die by him/herself.... so u should be able
to gain control of your life by
yourself.... get some professional help
from family consultants... they usually
help
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seabirds awaiting spring
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Joined: 02 Jul 2007
Posts: 13
Location: In a pit surrounded by great beauty
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Thank Gosh You're On the Way Back Up!
Posted: 07-02-07 21:55pm
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Hi jo_1982
Well, I hope you live a bit longer. You
got me kind of interested. Should I ask
why your mother took your sister? Was she
older or younger than you. Did you all
have the same father?
Putting up with in-laws is really tough
for some people. I'm lucky with mine.
But even if they were really bad, I
wouldn't leave after just two years!
I know you're heart-broken, and that ain't
easy. At times when things looked worst
for me, and that's been more than one
time!, I kept telling myself over and over
again, all through the day, "This too
shall pass." It was the only thing I
could do. I couldn't see any other hope.
That helped me keep my head just barely
above water till the tide receded a little
and I could feel a little solid ground
under my feet once again.
So, you keep treading. I know the water's
cold and endless looking. But once you're
at the bottom, there's nowhere to go but
up. Hope really is "around the corner."
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jo_1982
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 26 Jun 2007
Posts: 33
Location: surrey
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Re: Thank Gosh You're On the Way Back Up!
Posted: 07-03-07 14:26pm
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| seabirds awaiting spring
wrote: | Hi jo_1982
Well, I hope you live a bit longer. You
got me kind of interested. Should I ask
why your mother took your sister? Was she
older or younger than you. Did you all
have the same father?
Putting up with in-laws is really tough
for some people. I'm lucky with mine.
But even if they were really bad, I
wouldn't leave after just two years!
I know you're heart-broken, and that ain't
easy. At times when things looked worst
for me, and that's been more than one
time!, I kept telling myself over and over
again, all through the day, "This too
shall pass." It was the only thing I
could do. I couldn't see any other hope.
That helped me keep my head just barely
above water till the tide receded a little
and I could feel a little solid ground
under my feet once again.
So, you keep treading. I know the water's
cold and endless looking. But once you're
at the bottom, there's nowhere to go but
up. Hope really is "around the
corner." |
Hi seabird thanks for your message as for
my sister she was the middle one of the 3
of us we do all have the same farther i
dent blame my mother anymore i understand
now what she had to put up with from my
family no one should have to deal with the
way they treat people i am really low but
one of my ex's who i am still very close
to is helping me deal with things the best
he can between me and his girlfriend and
his job the poor guy will be worn out lol
just hope i can get pass this things
wouldnt have been so bad if he had told me
he had enough and maybe we could have
sorted something out
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jo_1982
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 26 Jun 2007
Posts: 33
Location: surrey
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Posted: 07-03-07 14:29pm
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| randomguy1
wrote: | be strong and
self-dependent.... millions have had bad
families.... not everyone commits suicide
but the weak... u should give yourself
positive messages.... come on
dont look for your luv unless u have
gained your self-esteem then your family
cant affect anything
avoid hard drugs at all times they are of
no long term help
get yourself together and make a plan for
your life.... what u wanna be... your
family will be gone at some point in your
life... so their effects on you should'nt
stay at all... try to be independent thats
the only way
find good friends/avoid drugies - real
good friends are not easy to find... so be
positive and try to be yourself with high
confidence and hopefully u'll find some
friends....
haha funny thing is that i've had more
than 100 friends in 4 years of being in
states.... now i have 0
u know why? they only looked cool but were
really not! and im way happier now than i
was with them despite what i was thinking
in the past 4 years!
at last a person is born alone and will
die by him/herself.... so u should be able
to gain control of your life by
yourself.... get some professional help
from family consultants... they usually
help |
Thank you for your reply and support it
means alot to me that there are people out
there that care
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jo_1982
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 26 Jun 2007
Posts: 33
Location: surrey
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Posted: 07-03-07 14:32pm
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| the_girlfreind
wrote: | | its gunna be
ok |
Thank you for your reply and support it
means alot to me that there are people out
there that care
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seabirds awaiting spring
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Jul 2007
Posts: 13
Location: In a pit surrounded by great beauty
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Staying Friends
Posted: 07-04-07 01:25am
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| jo_1982
wrote: |
. . . one of my ex's who i am still very
close to is helping me deal with things
the best he can between me and his
girlfriend and his job the poor guy will
be worn out lol just hope i can get pass
this things wouldnt have been so bad if he
had told me he had enough and maybe we
could have sorted something out . . .
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I can't tell you how lucky you are to have
an ex willing to help you. My first
spouse divorced me, then I had a friend
like a spouse, now I'm married. A couple
years ago, I found out where the friend
was, made contact, and was so happy to see
willingness to "reconcile." Didn't even
have to talk about past problems. Friends
again. Tried to do same with first
spouse, doesn't want to talk with me. No
divorce is healthy, but a divorce where
the two parties can at least talk to each
other is about a trillion million times
better than one where a spouse totally
shuts out the other. Even in divorce,
it's important to do things friendly.
I'm glad you have enough of a good
relationship that you ex is helping you.
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ashiezangel
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 08 Jul 2007
Posts: 7
Location: Emirates
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Posted: 07-08-07 18:21pm
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hi all ..i ma depressed too..
i dunt knw the actuall problem..
wthr its bcuz of me n ma bf...(we both r
frm different religion..my family would b
against dat  )..i
cant live widout him...
i can easily marry him..buty dun wanna
break ma mom dads heart...
...so i feel like killin myself..if not
for ma bf..wunt b for any other guy...
or wthr it is ma family pro..dat
matters..
ma bro got married..he n his wife r living
with us..
whts really suckz is dat they live a royal
life..its not dat m jealoused!
i mean..her wife do nothing all day
long...
n me n ma sis r da one to do da household
work n all that she should do as a part of
da family ..
wht worries is dat ma sis will soonn shift
...i will go bak...(m here for
vaccations)..ma mom would b left to do
alll does work..n comn guys i ant c ma mom
doin all such works...dat she must do..but
she dosnt..
i knw thers nuthin to worry or get
depressed..yet i am
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jo_1982
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 26 Jun 2007
Posts: 33
Location: surrey
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Posted: 07-09-07 16:12pm
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| ashiezangel
wrote: | hi all ..i ma depressed
too..
i dunt knw the actuall problem..
wthr its bcuz of me n ma bf...(we both r
frm different religion..my family would b
against dat )..i
cant live widout him...
i can easily marry him..buty dun wanna
break ma mom dads heart...
...so i feel like killin myself..if not
for ma bf..wunt b for any other guy...
or wthr it is ma family pro..dat
matters..
ma bro got married..he n his wife r living
with us..
whts really suckz is dat they live a royal
life..its not dat m jealoused!
i mean..her wife do nothing all day
long...
n me n ma sis r da one to do da household
work n all that she should do as a part of
da family ..
wht worries is dat ma sis will soonn shift
...i will go bak...(m here for
vaccations)..ma mom would b left to do
alll does work..n comn guys i ant c ma mom
doin all such works...dat she must do..but
she dosnt..
i knw thers nuthin to worry or get
depressed..yet i
am |
Hi i understand how you feel maybe the
best thing for you to do is come clean to
your family about your bf and let them no
how much you love each other and want to
be together they maybe understanding you
cant help who you fall in love with you
must go with your heart and do what makes
you happy your family can not live your
life for you ask them if they want you to
be happy .
as for your brothers wife tell her to stop
being so lazy and get up off her bk side
and help out as she is now apart of the
family good luck please let me no how
things go for u
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jo_1982
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 26 Jun 2007
Posts: 33
Location: surrey
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There Is Hope If You Get Help
Posted: 09-06-07 20:29pm
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Hi just to keep everyone updated the best
thing you can do if you feel as low and
down as i have been is to see your family
gp and tell them how your feeling like i
did and they have given me pills to help
with the depression and see me every week
now so there is light after all thanks to
everyone that has left messages of support
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jo_1982
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 26 Jun 2007
Posts: 33
Location: surrey
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Hi All
Posted: 10-14-07 17:52pm
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Hi JUst another update to let everyone no
i'm doing better i still see my GP once a
week and the pill's are working great i
still have alot of problems going on in my
life and i'm dealing with them now so from
here on the only way is up i guess if
anyone reads this who is feeling depressed
just head for your GP as soon as you can
they are there to help let them no how
your feeling and thanks to everyone who
has replyed to me if anyone wants to chat
feel free to pm me
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muy878
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Joined: 19 Oct 2007
Posts: 10
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Posted: 10-19-07 07:59am
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keep going girl you are alot stronger then
you think to have made it through that so
treat every day as a new one and enjoy
yourself.
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jo_1982
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 26 Jun 2007
Posts: 33
Location: surrey
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Posted: 10-19-07 16:43pm
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| muy878
wrote: | | keep going girl you are alot
stronger then you think to have made it
through that so treat every day as a new
one and enjoy
yourself. |
Hi thanks for the message your right i am
stronger then i think and i'm glad i have
got this far i have learned so much along
the way and its made me a better person i
owe so much to one of my ex's hes been a
real rock of support with everything that
been going on some good has come out of
this its made me and him alot closer and
we are like best mates now i dont think i
would have got as far as i have without
him or my GP so now i'm just taking each
day as it comes and i'm trying to put my
life back together as hard as it is to do
that but i will get there one day thanks
to everyone on here who has sent me replys
also 
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smason2475
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I would like to help
Posted: 03-08-08 23:22pm
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Could you PM me? Ive suffered similar to
you and it may surprise you how alike our
situations are. Ive struggled for such a
long time and am finding new ways that
work without meds to help myself. It
always helps to have support. Im sure I
can help u in so manyways. Especially when
u feel alone and have no one to talk to,
and like no cares. I wanna help u, b/c no
one helped me.
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