More Or Less Interest In Sex Posted: 06-27-07 08:59am
Hey there. I have lost my interest in sex.
I find sex very hard to handle right now.
I have no desire at all. My husband who is
5 years younger can’t understand what I
am going trough. I am very nervous and
anxious and I need help and support from
women who are going trough the same.
Please, can you tell me what about you?
Have u had these problems? How your
partner managed to handle all of this? Did
he give you support? How are you girls
feeling?
Thanks
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tinafifi
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Aug 2007 Posts: 1 Location: Pennsylvania
Re: More Or Less Interest In Sex Posted: 08-13-07 06:59am
[quote="dadamaja"]Hey there. I have lost
my interest in sex. I find sex very hard
to handle right now. I have no desire at
all. My husband who is 5 years younger
can’t understand what I am going trough.
I am very nervous and anxious and I need
help and support from women who are going
trough the same. Please, can you tell me
what about you? Have u had these problems?
How your partner managed to handle all of
this? Did he give you support? How are you
girls feeling?
Thanks
[/quoteI'm going
through the same thing but my fiance is 4
years older than me but I think its
because I'm 43 and just had a baby 3 years
ago and I just don't have any energy. I
wish I could find out if its hormones or
whats going on]
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wazzywoman4ever
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Aug 2007 Posts: 67 Location: texas, america
Wish to Help But Posted: 08-13-07 17:46pm
I am on the other end of this I may be pre
menapausal and my drive is overwhelming to
my guy who is 9 years my senior I am 46
.....so I probly know more about your
husbands thoughts on it than yours
.....and I can tell you that communication
is a must be honest and no blame game
....and just because you have no
inclination help him a little for love
sake .....he does not deserve to be cut
off for no fault of his own ? just saying
yes you have your reasons but they are not
his fault ...so throw him a bone and ask
him for support in this for patience ...be
a couple through this ..good
luck.wazzywoman
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tklug34
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Aug 2007 Posts: 1 Location: Michigan
Lost My Sex Drive Posted: 08-13-07 18:12pm
hello i am 36 years old i have also lost
interest in sex. I dont know if its me or
my husband. But we havent had sex in three
months. I do know however that we have six
children and we never really get any alone
time and we both work out side of the
home. So by evening time im exausted so
that may be something to do with it. But
ill tell ya at times i feel lonely and
lost and we have many arguements over sex
i dont know why but we do. I try to please
him when ever he wants me too he is also
four years younger than me and has a bad
leg which he hurt in a car accident so i
dont expect much from him just some love
is all i really want. So if anyone has any
advise on what i should do please do so.
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