Boyfriend Proposed Friends Wit Benefits to Ex..trust Is Gone

who cares if he thinks you snopped it was open so of course you looked its human to be like that.

dump him!!! he does not care about you if he will try to do things like that to you. tell him what you know and tell him to hit the road jackas*

Well I confronted my boyfriend about this. I told him that I had seen the email and that I knew that girl was after him bothering him with emails.texting and calling him constantly. And why would he go and ask something like that to her obviously seeing she was being bothersome.

He said he doesn't deny what he wrote but that since she was so intrusive and bothering him and me a lot he suggested that; not because he would ever do something like that but he wanted to see just how far she was willing to go. He knows her 8yrs.they dated when they were kids and since she's not happy wit her guy she's trying to get her fix somewere else and she still hasn't gotten over him breaking up wit her. She was 11 he was 15. So he says he did it in the intention of pushing her away for good.

He showed me the rest of the emails and after that he cut off all communication wit her. She kept going after him etc. The usual desperate chik. So I asked her and gave me a whole different story and that's when I caught her. She was the one that was after him she was the one instigating everything. Of course why would the ex be soo nice to the current girlfriend of her ex? It never made sense to me that she was so nice to me.

She would be nosey and try to find out how things were between me and my boyfriend and when she saw things were rocket she always goes for it. So I told my boyfriend if he wanted to keep her away he didn't have to do what he did. He could have done it another way. So my trust in him is still iffy, and now his trust in me is hurt cause of all the things she said to me about him which weren't true after having done some investigating. I believed her and not him and I accept I was wrong in running to the least indicated person..the ex instead of being an adult and going straight to him. So I understand what he's feeling.

Were still together. Slowly building our trust back. But our relationship is stronger and that seems to have bothered her from what I.ve seen. So I sent her a little message telling her to forget the past and get over it. To know what she has and to keep it and leave mine alone and not dwell on what someone else has. That she has better things to do like take care of her son and boyfriend. And that I didn't want to talk to her ever.

So the story is finished for now. Unless she decides she wants revenge on me lol but I doubt it because since me and my boyfriend blocked her number and email from our pages together I don't think she.ll be bothering us or trying to make things rocky between us.

Oy, that stinks. I'm glad to hear that he blocked her out of stuff, otherwise I'd be wondering why didn't he just tell her to leave him alone?

I hope he treats you well.

Go girl,

I am so happy to hear that you cut off all communicaton!!!! keep us updated!!!

good job! you dont deserve to be lied to!!!

Well after all this drama and after I had sent the email telling her I didn't want anything to do with her...she goes and rants about me and my boyfriend on her blog lol she's warning me he's not the person I think he is that he.ll screw me over like he did her...umm they were kids back then..the majority of
people change dramatically as they grow up given the life and experiances they have theought their lives. And from what I hear from his family he's been through a lot with being in the war.. disabled.. Then wit unsuccesful relationships..coming back home And then the girl he messed around wit when he was 18 has his kid.


Be careful. He's not what you think he is. Blah blah. She says bitterly on her page. She's just angry we both blocked her and stopped talking to her. I was going to respond to her blog but I decided not too..let her be bitter my boyfriend says..instead I put up a picture of me and him being all happy and smily lol so for now the ex drama is at bay. Were happy and I don't care what she tries to do or say that would make our relationship rocky.

Cause she would only feed off of that. She said she didn't talk to him cause of love...but because she felt betrayed. Oh well hunny get over it is what I say!lol plus love and lust are a whole different thing. I guess she hated hearing the truth from me but anyways I'll keep you guys posted if anything happens;