Am I the Only One Who Feels Like This? Posted: 03-05-04 04:33am
I wasn't ttc but there was a good chance
that I was pregnant. I also wasn't sure
if I wanted a baby right now but if I had
have been I would have been overjoyed and
obviously kept it. But my period started
last night and I feel so upset. I had a
miscarriage in dec and I feel almost as
bad as I did then. But then I keep
telling myself that I wasn't pregnant in
the first place so i'm not entitled to
those feelings but I just can't help it.
I just keep thinking about how amazing it
would have been to have a baby of my own.
And to make it worse I have to live with
my cousin who's 6 months gone, so there's
always a constant reminder. Am I being
stupid and unreasonable?
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Amberlee123
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 08 Dec 2003 Posts: 185 Location: Tennessee
Posted: 03-05-04 08:19am
I imagine you are far from the only one
who feels this way. I do not because I
have been blessed with two beautiful girls
and I have my first boy on the way. I do
remember a couple of years ago taking a
pregnancy test, it showed up negative and
even though I was not in any way ready for
another child I was very disapointed
inside. Maybe you should talk with your
partner about trying to concieve. Are you
really ready for a person to take care of?
