Joined: 19 Apr 2007 Posts: 15 Location: new jersey
Im Confused? Posted: 06-30-07 21:19pm
i have this boyfriend who is poor. he
likes in a house that is separated like
someone lives downstairs and he lives
upstairs with his family and they pay rent
to live there. only the father works. and
has to pay all the bills. so about once a
week either thier cable or phone or even
electric gets shut off because they cannot
pay the bills. and somtimes not even the
rent. i tell my boyfriend to get a job i
made him get one with me then he got fired
because he kept on calling out and
everytime he got paid he never saved his
money in a banking account he does not
even have one. this week he just got
fired. and he refuses to get another job.
he says he wants to buy me stuff but he
cannot because he dosent have a job.
everyday i tell him to go out and get a
job and to save his money. but all i keep
getting is i will dont worry about it i
will find one. idn what to do yea i love
him and i no life is not about money but i
am sorry to say i dont want to live like
that. coming from a family with a lot of
money i dont want to move out and end up
in an apartment struggling every month to
pay every single bill and be poor that is
not how i want my future. he just does not
listen to me when i tell him this what do you think i
can say to him to make him save his money
so we dont have to end up poor in a poor
house and not being able to pay our
bills?????????? thanks for the help.
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Joined: 21 Jun 2007 Posts: 13932 Location: everythings better in, texas USA
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Posted: 06-30-07 21:56pm
tel him u want better for yourself and for
him
he needs to help provide for the booth of
you
if not...lifes gunna be tough...and he
needs to realize he shouldnt put YOU
theough that because he wants to be
selfish, stubborn and lazy!
what do you think i
can say to him to make him save his money
so we dont have to end up poor in a poor
house and not being able to pay our
bills?????????? thanks for the help.
